What the.....?

**ELP** · August 11th, 2011, 04:03 AM

Originally Posted by jane

Thanx all for the kind words but just been to loo and it is a chemical:-( now I'm gonna be paranoid in future months.

Oh Jane, thats rotten if it is

I still have a tiny set of x fingers just in case ok xxx

**jane** · August 11th, 2011, 04:55 AM

thanx,i feel like i was given something so precious and it was taken back

i know it was super early but your hopes get raised dont they.ive never had this happen before and its quite upsetting, i can only imagine what its like to go through this often or worse. im gonna wait at least a month now cos i need to get in the right frame of mind. i do find this a little too coincidental that ive had 3 girls no problems then trying to sway for the 1st time and this happens.it makes me dubious to say the least.

**Princess of Pink** · August 11th, 2011, 06:15 AM

I can really relate to that way of thinking Jane....I had 2 missed m/c that were perfect sways...everything predicted boy. It felt even worse because my mind just kept telling me that I had my boy...and lost him! Makes me even more apprehensive about swaying this time. Which is why my sway is more just for increasing fertility and making me as healthy as I can be....I just don't want another loss...6 is enough!!

HUGE big hugs to you!!

**Plum3** · August 11th, 2011, 06:21 AM

I'm so sorry Jane

**gizmo77** · August 11th, 2011, 02:49 PM

sorry! its very unnerving not knowing what the heck is happening. i know how you guys feel about 'not meant to have a boy.'

**LolaInLove** · August 11th, 2011, 03:08 PM

Jane, I'm so sorry. I've had 2 chemicals, I bet you saw on the other thread. It is hard to think you are pg for a few days and then it gets swiped out from under you. You never know why, either, but best to just attribute it to a chomosomal issue and not swaying. Chemicals happen all the time, and there is nothing you can do to prevent them just as much as there is nothing you can do to cause them. Sometimes those chomosomes don't fuse together to make a normal 46 and your body knows it isn't going to be a healthy baby somehow. Just don't give up, lots of women have them in between perfectly normal pregnancies.....I know OODLES who have. Heck, lots of women have later m/c in between also. Just keep your chin up and try again. And you don't even need to wait with one that early. I hope you are doing ok!!! HUGS xxoo

**ladybug** · August 11th, 2011, 03:27 PM

So sorry Jane!!! The same thing happened to me last month...It does suck! xo

**jane** · August 11th, 2011, 07:36 PM

thankyou all

**Kris217** · August 11th, 2011, 09:55 PM

Aww so sorry Jane ((hugs))

**Flava** · August 11th, 2011, 10:52 PM

I know how it is , so sad for you.

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