Panic!

**Hobbermittens** · August 12th, 2011, 01:25 PM

I didn't sway for DS. We just BD every day I was fertile. I had gained a little weight before I conceived him, but other than that, I don't have any idea what I did to help the boy swimmers out.

Don't worry, you will get a BFP Lola!! I just know it!

**atomic sagebrush** · August 13th, 2011, 10:35 AM

Hobber, you're in such a good spot for TTC even without swaying because you know 100% that you guys can make both boys and girls!

You're going to do great! Keep after it!!!

**Hobbermittens** · August 13th, 2011, 10:37 AM

Thanks Atomic! I just wish DH was doing his part a little better.

**begonia** · August 15th, 2011, 04:06 PM

Originally Posted by Flava

You really have to ask if there is anyone else? You don't read my posts or what??

Im freaker #1 here

Flava you crack me up! I think you of all of us have the most reason to freak! My FX for you

And FX for a whole bunch of blue BFPs this fall!

Oh and FWIW Hobber I wouldn't fret about DH! If your bean ends up

since he didn't do his part for the sway it is CLEARLY all on him

**Hobbermittens** · August 15th, 2011, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by begonia

Oh and FWIW Hobber I wouldn't fret about DH! If your bean ends up

since he didn't do his part for the sway it is CLEARLY all on him

Well, the problem is, I am the one who pushed for another baby, and I am the one who wants a boy. He couldn't care less. So I am not sure what to do to motivate him....

**atomic sagebrush** · August 20th, 2011, 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Well, the problem is, I am the one who pushed for another baby, and I am the one who wants a boy. He couldn't care less. So I am not sure what to do to motivate him....

EXACTLY!!! I SO feel ya on that. My husband gave a rat's a$$ about gender (in fact he actively did not want a girl) and if I would have pushed the issue with swaying he would have been like, "fine, no baby then."

I think it's so awesome when I see husbands that are supportive!

**LolaInLove** · August 20th, 2011, 10:42 AM

I think you just do the best you can, Hobber, and don't worry too much about DH....tons of them don't help with swaying and everything turns out fine!

**Hobbermittens** · August 21st, 2011, 11:20 PM

Originally Posted by LolaInLove

I think you just do the best you can, Hobber, and don't worry too much about DH....tons of them don't help with swaying and everything turns out fine!

I know. You are a lucky lady--your DH is being really co-operative, isn't he? Mine started out that way, but he is really not taking things as seriously as I want him too. He won't stop drinking beer, or smoking his "special cigarettes", and isn't working very hard to lose weight (he lost 10 lbs and then stopped trying). I guess I need to just do what I can, and hope the rest falls into place!

**Hobbermittens** · August 21st, 2011, 11:21 PM

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

EXACTLY!!! I SO feel ya on that. My husband gave a rat's a$$ about gender (in fact he actively did not want a girl) and if I would have pushed the issue with swaying he would have been like, "fine, no baby then."

I am afraid this is what will happen if I push too hard too!!

**atomic sagebrush** · August 27th, 2011, 11:19 AM

KFX and TX that it isn't an issue!

PS - this may be one case where beer and special ciggies are actually working FOR you when TTC a boy!!

If he gets too uptight, you def. know how to relax him haha.

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