Embarrassing dh problems

[Hex]

It could definitely be psychological like bunny suggested. My dh had that issue when we first got together and he was only 22-23. He also is quite big at about 260-270 lbs and not very tall, maybe 5'5" -5'6".. so in his case, weight probably plays a role too. When we first got together and started getting intimate I think he was just kinda shy and self conscious and had a hard time getting "ready" and staying "ready" in your case it could be a combination of the medication and that the atmosphere of making love has changed, maybe he feels nervous or pressured to perform to participate in the sway now. As well as speaking with his doctor to see if the medication could be causing this, you might also try to talk to him to see if he is feeling any psychological distress in the bedroom as far as nerves or pressure to perform. My dh and I talked about past sexual experiences that he had had that left a negative impact on him and I always am complimenting him on his body and he hasn't had as much as an issue anymore although sometimes he has days where it just won't cooperate, most days are fine now.

[atomic sagebrush]

fine to drop soymilk, if HE thinks it will help, even if it is just a placebo that may be what he needs to get back in the saddle.

[deaks66]

Was he likes this before, or did it start to happen when toy started to sway? If so, the same thing happened to my DH. It turns it he said it had felt like an exam and had to perform so felt a bit pressured and anxious. Once we weren't swaying anymore he was right as rain!

This exact same thing happened to my dh when we were swaying. Once I was pg he was all over me like a rash again!