Unusual nub please please help!?! :)

[Claire33]

The 12 week one looks girly, but there might be a shadow on top of nub, your 14 week one looks boyish. Any more pics? FX for boy!

[mommymachine]

The 14 week is tricky for gender. I almost want to say girl, but I really am not sure at all.

[mandyp85]

Thanks again Mandy I'm totally in two minds whether to find out
Not sure whether finding out now and its a girl and being disappointed is better than waiting for the big surprise
Am torturing myself

I've got to say that my last pregnancy I was convinced I was having another boy, hadn't had it confirmed but my nub shot was all boy so deep down I knew and yet I found it hit me really hard when he was born, I was not prepared at all and I found it quite difficult at first to bond with him (very sad I know as he was perfectly healthy and I love him dearly) but with my current pregnancy I have already found out I'm having another boy (he was not shy in showing his bits to us even tho I didn't want to know what we are having) and I must say I've come to terms with it already. I think when you want a certain gender you carry that hope with you all the way to the end (if you're team green) and for me I found it was easier to have that hope taken away before meeting our baby, that way he will have me at my best and happiest, which my alfie didn't get as I was sad, I will always feel guilty about that. If you find out before baby is here you get to "grieve" for the child you aren't having or if it is a boy then its all good anyways. Anyway sorry for the rant lol just thought I would give you my opinion :-)

[Dreamingofblu16]

Thanks atomic sagebrush really appreciate it
I guess I know in my heart of hearts it's another girl
I didn't think of that (as in bits of pic cut off) so thanks thought I had a weird nub
X

[Dreamingofblu16]

Your totally right Mandy I really feel the need to find out because people say you won't mind when you give birth but I need to have dealt with my feelings sa before then I think
Not sure my hubby will agree though :-(
Many thanks for your understandinf
Xx

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks atomic sagebrush really appreciate it
I guess I know in my heart of hearts it's another girl
I didn't think of that (as in bits of pic cut off) so thanks thought I had a weird nub
X

the way the ultrasound pics work is that there are angles that they use where only part of the body is showing and I think the lower part is just angled/shadowed out of existence. it doesn't mean it isn't there, just that it's not showing.

[Dreamingofblu16]

Many thanks Claire 33 sorry i don't have any different pics
I m having bi weekly checks due to a previous preemie so my next scan is on the 16th x

[Claire33]

Good luck, I hope you can see something (boyish) on your next scan!

[mandyp85]

Your totally right Mandy I really feel the need to find out because people say you won't mind when you give birth but I need to have dealt with my feelings sa before then I think
Not sure my hubby will agree though :-(
Many thanks for your understandinf
Xx

I did feel like I wouldn't be bothered once baby was born whilst I was pregnant but the reality was completely different, I guess I didn't realise how much I wanted another girl until he was born. But I can say even tho I was sad at the time he has been a wonderful addition to our family. Good luck with whatever decision you make and please keep us updated :-)

[Babygirlquest]

One of my boy nubs was similar to your 12 week. I think there might be part we can't see. I still think boy, good luck!