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    I like to be in control. Of Everything!! Im not very spontaneous, i like to plan. I must be organised or i dont function! And im more than likely a pain in the @#$% to live with! I delegate alot - mostly to my DH and Im obsessive, compulsive. I like a nice tidy home and clean kids! But, i think a girl would fit in quite nicely here!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by squigglepink View Post
    I like to be in control. Of Everything!! Im not very spontaneous, i like to plan. I must be organised or i dont function! And im more than likely a pain in the @#$% to live with! I delegate alot - mostly to my DH and Im obsessive, compulsive. I like a nice tidy home and clean kids! But, i think a girl would fit in quite nicely here!!
    You just described me... except I don't even delegate because I prefer to do everything myself!

    I'm telling you pink swayers... diet and exercise! I'm as Martha as they come!

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    I have a List Book ������ With a carefully adhered to colour coding system.

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    You can't change that though. That is just part of who you are (and we like that!!) IT is normal when you're planning to do something that is important to you, that you do think about it.

    What I DON'T want to see, is you guys worrying about worrying. You're going to think about swaying, probably a lot. That you cannot control, and then getting so worked up about it that you end up hyperventilating into a paper bag thinking "OMG I gotta calm down or I'm going to RUIN EVERYTHING" is worse than just thinking about it in the first place.

    The only, only only reason I ever mentioned this was to prevent you guys from going the "colorcoded charts, months of schedules" way. If you're not doing that, then you've already DONE IT. Success has occured. I do not want and never intended for anyone to take it further than that and start stressing over stress itself. Life is what it is, you can't control the random thoughts that pop into your mind and when you try to - well, that's only MORE control-freakishness that we're trying to avoid anyway!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Throwaway_panther View Post
    You just described me... except I don't even delegate because I prefer to do everything myself!

    I'm telling you pink swayers... diet and exercise! I'm as Martha as they come!

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    I'm telling you, ladies, if I got a girl anyone can. Martha all the way.
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    Loving this discussion! I have no idea how to reduce my stress running after 2 crazy boys who are destroying my house!
    mummy to 10yrs & 8yrs. 7weeks dec 2016 4yrs.
    After 2 failed sways we are going high tech

    May 2019 IVF1 4 follicle, 4 fertilised & only 1 made it to day 5
    JUly 2019 IVF2 8 follicles, 3 fertilised & only 1 made it to day 6 frozen & waiting for us
    our precious was a failed FET .
    IVF3 1 day 5
    2020 COVID halts our plans & we cant travel
    2021 6 more egg collections yeild 17eggs in total. Frozen gametes shipped to clinic & 16 survive the thaw & only 3 fertilised. None to test on day 5

    Jan 2022 this wasnt the plan.......
    Feb 2022 stopped growing & left me at 8weeks

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    Quote Originally Posted by kc15880 View Post
    Loving this discussion! I have no idea how to reduce my stress running after 2 crazy boys who are destroying my house!
    Hahaha! That sounds very familiar!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kc15880 View Post
    Loving this discussion! I have no idea how to reduce my stress running after 2 crazy boys who are destroying my house!
    You can't, so don't try. You only add an additional layer of anxiety onto what is already there in your life.

    Plenty of girl mamas have to do lots of running around after crazy kiddos. That is just normal life.
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