How to stay calm and chilled out when girl swaying?

[squigglepink]

I like to be in control. Of Everything!! Im not very spontaneous, i like to plan. I must be organised or i dont function! And im more than likely a pain in the @#$% to live with! I delegate alot - mostly to my DH and Im obsessive, compulsive. I like a nice tidy home and clean kids! But, i think a girl would fit in quite nicely here!!

[Throwaway_panther]

I like to be in control. Of Everything!! Im not very spontaneous, i like to plan. I must be organised or i dont function! And im more than likely a pain in the @#$% to live with! I delegate alot - mostly to my DH and Im obsessive, compulsive. I like a nice tidy home and clean kids! But, i think a girl would fit in quite nicely here!!

You just described me... except I don't even delegate because I prefer to do everything myself!

I'm telling you pink swayers... diet and exercise! I'm as Martha as they come!

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[honeybee37]

I have a List Book ������ With a carefully adhered to colour coding system.

[atomic sagebrush]

You can't change that though. That is just part of who you are (and we like that!!) IT is normal when you're planning to do something that is important to you, that you do think about it.

What I DON'T want to see, is you guys worrying about worrying. You're going to think about swaying, probably a lot. That you cannot control, and then getting so worked up about it that you end up hyperventilating into a paper bag thinking "OMG I gotta calm down or I'm going to RUIN EVERYTHING" is worse than just thinking about it in the first place.

The only, only only reason I ever mentioned this was to prevent you guys from going the "colorcoded charts, months of schedules" way. If you're not doing that, then you've already DONE IT. Success has occured. I do not want and never intended for anyone to take it further than that and start stressing over stress itself. Life is what it is, you can't control the random thoughts that pop into your mind and when you try to - well, that's only MORE control-freakishness that we're trying to avoid anyway!!

[atomic sagebrush]

You just described me... except I don't even delegate because I prefer to do everything myself!

I'm telling you pink swayers... diet and exercise! I'm as Martha as they come!

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I'm telling you, ladies, if I got a girl anyone can. Martha all the way.

[kc15880]

Loving this discussion! I have no idea how to reduce my stress running after 2 crazy boys who are destroying my house!

[jennypenny]

Loving this discussion! I have no idea how to reduce my stress running after 2 crazy boys who are destroying my house!

Hahaha! That sounds very familiar!!

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[atomic sagebrush]

Loving this discussion! I have no idea how to reduce my stress running after 2 crazy boys who are destroying my house!

You can't, so don't try. You only add an additional layer of anxiety onto what is already there in your life.

Plenty of girl mamas have to do lots of running around after crazy kiddos. That is just normal life.