Short lp

[DesiG]

Design sorry you are going through similar. I don't think having a short number of days between period and when you ovulate matter as much having a short lp, time between o and af. I think it can take up to 10 days for implantation and if my af starts after 8 or 9 days it is possible that the lining will have been shed before the blastocyst can implant?
But we are similar in struggling to conceive after conceiving relatively easily. It is so frustrating, I have felt very down today and it has been hard to stick with monitoring fat/ protein and calories and exercising while feeling like this. Hope August is lucky for us both! X

I hear you, because of me getting pg very fast with all my girls I had just assumed it would happen fast this time also, oh boy what a fool I was!! I was telling everyone on here and baby center what symptoms I was having, and even told my hubby I was 95% sure I was pg, and then AF showed up and I was crushed! But now I see it as a blessing, because I had only found gender dreaming like a week before my attempt, so I knew nothing about the he diet or adding supplements. But I am more then hoping/ praying in August I get my bfp. Right now I just look at it as maybe my little boy was not ready for that race yet. Im not sure what you are trying for It looks like girl maybe? But maybe your little one was not ready for that race yet either. Either way there is a reason for everything, and Im sure our time will come! I'm just so over this He diet thing, making sure I eat 3 times a day and snack in between is so stressful and expensive!! I know I've drove my hubby half crazy too. I hope everything works out for you! Maybe we could keep up with each other on here it would be so nice having someone to talk to on here, no one knows we are ttc except the hubby of course, lol

[purple]

My periods are lighter than they used to be but on my scan for my monitored cycle the lining was fine.

[Girlieplease]

I hear you, because of me getting pg very fast with all my girls I had just assumed it would happen fast this time also, oh boy what a fool I was!! I was telling everyone on here and baby center what symptoms I was having, and even told my hubby I was 95% sure I was pg, and then AF showed up and I was crushed! But now I see it as a blessing, because I had only found gender dreaming like a week before my attempt, so I knew nothing about the he diet or adding supplements. But I am more then hoping/ praying in August I get my bfp. Right now I just look at it as maybe my little boy was not ready for that race yet. Im not sure what you are trying for It looks like girl maybe? But maybe your little one was not ready for that race yet either. Either way there is a reason for everything, and Im sure our time will come! I'm just so over this He diet thing, making sure I eat 3 times a day and snack in between is so stressful and expensive!! I know I've drove my hubby half crazy too. I hope everything works out for you! Maybe we could keep up with each other on here it would be so nice having someone to talk to on here, no one knows we are ttc except the hubby of course, lol

Thanks desig, am swaying pink, I have a dd and two ds and my dd is so desperate for a sister, it breaks my heart. I would love to keep in contact on here, I would like to follow your journey to hopefully your little boy! Am so over the le diet, I have stuck to my limits and completed day five of exercise today but I feel like just throwing the towel in, just so disheartened. I want to eat meat and not exercise but at least am thin! Good luck and fingers crossed. I o around cd 14 so my attempt will be in about 13 days x

[Girlieplease]

Thanks purple, am just struggling to understand why I have not gotten pregnant and trying to latch on to anything, I don't see what will change about next month to increase my chances but I think we just need to keeping pushing forward! X

[DesiG]

Thanks desig, am swaying pink, I have a dd and two ds and my dd is so desperate for a sister, it breaks my heart. I would love to keep in contact on here, I would like to follow your journey to hopefully your little boy! Am so over the le diet, I have stuck to my limits and completed day five of exercise today but I feel like just throwing the towel in, just so disheartened. I want to eat meat and not exercise but at least am thin! Good luck and fingers crossed. I o around cd 14 so my attempt will be in about 13 days x

Aww well hopefully you get your little girl a sister, don't give up girl! Hang in there! I will try and follow you on here. I here if you ever need someone to talk to apparently I'm a pro when it comes to making girls lol.

[atomic sagebrush]

Ah just found it.

Yes, it's possible to get pregnant with 9 day LP and it will also fix itself over time- remember, whenever you conceive, you would have no way of knowing what your LP would have been that month anyway.

2 months is nothing. Please do not despair over taking 2 months to conceive.

If you give me a brief rundown of what you're doing I'll tell you what to tweak.

you sometimes will have better results with a doctor if you take a chart in to them.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks purple, am just struggling to understand why I have not gotten pregnant and trying to latch on to anything, I don't see what will change about next month to increase my chances but I think we just need to keeping pushing forward! X

It takes fully fertile couples doing nothing to sway an average of 3-6 months to get pregnant. For those of us for whom it's happened quicker than that, it's because we were lucky, not because we are doing anything wrong now. 2 months is nothing.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks purple, am just struggling to understand why I have not gotten pregnant and trying to latch on to anything, I don't see what will change about next month to increase my chances but I think we just need to keeping pushing forward! X

It takes fully fertile couples doing nothing to sway an average of 3-6 months to get pregnant. For those of us for whom it's happened quicker than that, it's because we were lucky, not because we are doing anything wrong now. 2 months is nothing.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks xxforhubby, I feel so miserable and timing is awful as am going for lunch with two pregnant people today. My husband wants me to stop swaying, he says we have three healthy babies a girl and a 2 boys conceived no problem first attempt.
I could be missing ovulation but am temping, using the cbfm, clear blue digital ovulation stick and cervical mucus and doing e4d's, I wonder if am maybe not ovulating? My body is gearing up for it but no egg? Thanks for all your help it just hurts at the moment. But I will dust myself off and get back on the plan, just not today, today am sad! X

If you're getting AF and your cycle is fairly regular then you're ovulating. You don't get AF if you didn't ovulate 99 out of 100 times.

[atomic sagebrush]

Lighter AF is something we see a lot with pink sways and it is a good sign that diet is working for you. We get pregnant all the time with AF like that (and again, just like with LP, your flow one month tells nothing about what happens to your lining in the NEXT!!) We also notice that our periods come at really oddball times of day.

When I got my daughter I had like 1 day of flow and then 2 of really faint spotting (one before and one after) and my period started coming at like 5pm instead of first thing in the morning (which it has stayed there ever since!!!)