I just feel numb

[Completedbypink]

Thanks you. He will be very precious, just like his brothers.

[ksmom]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl. Please don't feel bad about not being excited right now. It's the loss of a dream of a daughter that's hard to deal with. It's a type of grief many of us here have experienced. I understand about not wanting to tell anyone. We've decided to keep the gender a secret because my mom is already making negative comments about another boy. :/ I'm sure once your little man is here, the real bonding can begin. It is hard to really bond with a baby you don't actually know and have never seen in real life, you know? I hope in time you will heal. I wish you all the best. *hugs*

[Mum4life]

I can completely understand what you're feeling, because I'm feeling it too. We just found out baby#4 is boy#4 via NIPT yesterday too. I'm not sad that he's a boy, I'm sad that I won't have a daughter to raise; I won't get to buy all the cute pink clothes and headbands;I won't get that mother daughter bond and help her through her own pregnancies and births, and just to add another kick to the guts the older 2 were upset as well because they absolutely wanted a sister. This is our absolute last, and pgd is not for us (we're in Australia anyway so would have to travel to the us), so there's no more chances for us unless there's a miraculous unexpected pregnancy that results in a girl.

I have no advice, but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in the way you're feeling ❤️

[rubyroo83]

Mum4life, gender selection might become legal in Australia, actually i really think it will in the next few years so don't say you'll never have a girl

I really feel for you both GD sux.

[Mum4life]

Thanks rubyroo! Oh really? That would almost be enough to get me through this atm. Not sure how dh feels about it though. He knows my desire for a girl, but I don't know if he'd be on board for gender selection. Im onboard for it though lol

[pinkcomestrue]

Just my opinion I know I'm not really helping..

If I set my mind with 4 kids and the God is giving me 3 boys, I think I would wish my 4th is a boy, as i already know everything about boys and save you so much money on everything [emoji4]

My friend who has 4 boys, she is so honest that she wanted girl and she is so proud that she can handle 4 boys, I asked her husband the other day, how are you feeling because the youngest only 2 years old, he goes "I'm very tired because I have to take all of them to the public toilet on my own, but I'm loving my boys"

Hope this will put a little smile on your face [emoji4]



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