What next?

[Missymaemar3]

So what really is the diet to sway girl? How much fiber and folate (can't take folic acid) should I do every four days then once at positive Opk?

[Missymaemar3]

The thing I dislike about e3d is that it is blue friendly and it doesn't even help boost odds of conception that much. Totally possible with e3d to have an attempt on O-2 and then on O Day (possibly too late to help) and that is still only one viable attempt (if everything from the O-4 attempt has died off) and if the O-4 hasn't died off and the O Day is not too late, that is the dreaded 3 attempts!!!

With e4d, you will always end up having 2 attempts in the fertile window no matter what. I just really prefer the e4d plus one.

Our present stats are not that illuminating on the difference between 1 and two attempts (this is because as "one attempt" became a thing, more and more people started doing it, and some of them didn't do diet and exercise, only did one attempt, and the success rate fell). But historically, there was a very clear cut difference between one attempt at 70% or better, two, which was about 60-65%, and then three attempts which fell all the way down to low 40's%. It was like this before we even knew one attempt did anything (so it couldn't have been people reporting it that way to make the stats "right", the results showed us one attempt was swaying, not the other way around) and stayed like that for years with hundreds of sways added. The gap between the two has closed recently but I think that's because people are doing one attempt and nothing else. So if you can stick with 1-2 attempts, it is WAY better than 3!

So should someone swaying girl do the every four days plus one attempt at positive Opk?

[Jeanette]

I think you will be better off trying e4d without the additional attempt for at least 2 more months before going to e4d plus one at pos OPK. That is actually fairly blue friendly so I think you should at least try e4d first. To do this, have unprotected sex every 4th day starting the day after AF ends and keep going right through your next AF starting (unless you are 110% sure you know when you ovulated). You may be Oing earlier or later than you think. Don't try to make the e4d come out any particular day, we are counting on adding in a variation in the day you are attempting in case we are outwitting ourselves in the timing of our attempt.

ARe you doing anything like shallow release, J and D, hubby taking hot baths/tighty whiteys, lubricant jellies (even just saliva)?

I would try laying flat longer after attempt and spending part of that time on your stomach instead of just on your back, and also adding in female O to boost odds of conception.

Ok, so my period is about to end and I'm preparing for e4d and next round TTC.
Not sure how I should count though? Seems to be different ways. I'm thinking two full days in between? Like this, attempt tonight tuesday, next will be on friday night and then again monday night and keep rolling like that?

[Pinkmama]

That is correct. I'm doing e4d right now too. Good luck


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[Jeanette]

That is correct. I'm doing e4d right now too. Good luck


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Thank you! Good luck to you

[Jeanette]

So should someone swaying girl do the every four days plus one attempt at positive Opk?

I'm pretty sure Atomic will advice you to start off with only one attempt at first pos OPK if you just started TTC.

[Missymaemar3]

It's my 4th month ttc she did tell me one attempt is a strong girl sway but she didn't tell me when within my fertile window and I know from past attempts bd 4 and 3 days before O the spermies don't survive so I want to get closer to ovulation I was thinking at my first positive Opk this time. Was also thinking about doing the lime tampon but I've read some bad stuff about it ehh.

[Bobster]

I think she has told you by advising bd every 4 days. Tbat way you are sure not to miss your fertile window.

Personally I'm planning to do one attempt at positive opk as my OH would not bd that much.

[atomic sagebrush]

Agh guys, lots of questions in here, can you bump this for tomorrow?? I'm having a busy day today.

[Jeanette]

When ever you have the time Atomic!

Wish you a pleasent weekend.