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    Quote Originally Posted by Maltayf View Post
    Oh wait, I see this one attempt means just one attempt in my fertile window, so we can do it whenever prior to then? Is that right? Or for btwn af and positive opk, should we only dtd once every few days or so? Sorry for my confusion..., I am in cycle day 7 right now and we dtd on cd5. Let’s say I get positive opk on cd 13 meaning I would O on cd 14 or 15; Would that be ok then, for example if we dtd on cd 5, cd 8 and 14 only? Or should we do it more or less?
    Well, most people want to start off trying a frequency pattern (like abstain) with the one attempt but you don't have to. you could do regular release (protected) + one attempt, or BD unprotected every 4 days (like you describe above) or just let him "do what he does" plus one attempt. The one attempt is the part that seems to work.

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    Thanks! Ok, so I took an opk test yesterday at 2pm and the line was just slightly lighter than the control... for my previous pregnancies, that was as close as I got to positive. So we dtd last night (after midnight). Well I took an OPK again today at 2pm and it was a definite positive. I know we can’t try again since we are going for one attempt. Did we screw up and miss it for this cycle? I know the opk is positive 24-48hrs before I actually o...yesterday was cycle day 11, today is cd12, meaning I will o cd 13/14. If we did it again on cd 15, it would be too late right? Any ideas of how we can salvage this cycle?

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    No, you're still in with a viable attempt depending on when you O. If you O on CD 13 that's a perfectly fine one attempt, if CD 14 it's still a chance but lower than if you O on CD 13.

    It is totally up to you, I'd just stick with the attempt you've had and BD again on CD 15 but if you want higher odds of conception you can BD again. Totally up to you.
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