Coffee and breast feeding during sway???

[atomic sagebrush]

21 of 23 people got girls drinking 3 or more cups of coffee a day. I like those odds LOL

No one's sway EVER comes down to one cup of coffee. I suggest you include it and increase it to 2 cups a day.

[Momma bear 4]

Rayalynn- Maybe try the opposite that you did with your boys. Dh drinked coffee too when we conceived our son and not as much or hardly any when we conceived our daughters. Pink dust your way hun.

[Momma bear 4]

Excuse me what is your problem atomic? You literally attacking me in every thread. For simply giving my opinion. What is wrong with you? Not sure what tactic you are trying to use for people to buy the sway kits. Are we not allowed to share our opinions? Do we have to keep quiet so they just buy the kits instead. Please leave me alone since I am not even attacking you in any way. You have your opinion just like everyone else has theirs.

[mommymachine]

Question for you Atomic—-I know I’m thread crashing but I’m genuinely curious; why does coffee sway girl but tea (specifically black) sway boy? Or, am I completely out to lunch and they both sway girl??


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping to try for #7 in 2019

[atomic sagebrush]

Rayalynn- Maybe try the opposite that you did with your boys. Dh drinked coffee too when we conceived our son and not as much or hardly any when we conceived our daughters. Pink dust your way hun.

Doing the opposite doesn't work, though. You have to do the things that actually work for swaying.

Let me illustrate - let's say that a person had gotten a boy in the past while drinking coffee but it was not because of the coffee, it was in spite of the coffee. They were actually (just making numbers up out of thin air, here) 60 % likely to have a girl but then the cards didn't fall their way and they got a boy anyway. We'll pretend coffee sways pink by 5%. The next time, they are 65% likely to get a girl, but then they "do the opposite" and end up back at 60% likely to get a girl again - they would have been better off if they kept drinking the coffee! You just can't look at one thing in isolation and say "ah-ha, that's the one reason I got a boy/girl" because it is never just one thing. It's tons of things working together.

The way we can tell things sway pink is by looking at a lot of people who have used them or done them and see the result of the gender they conceive. Based on our results coffee is a very good pink sway tactic. Plus, at the same time, the claims made on other sites are totally debunked - coffee does NOT make calcium leach from the body, that wasn't true. So both in terms of claims that were made that were false, and new evidence that is showing that coffee sways pink, that makes SO much more sense than just "doing the opposite" because you can easily end up worse off that way than you were to begin with. No one has to use it if they prefer not to, but it's a good pink sway and it's so easy to include it, I really think anyone who can do it, should.

[atomic sagebrush]

Excuse me what is your problem atomic? You literally attacking me in every thread. For simply giving my opinion. What is wrong with you? Not sure what tactic you are trying to use for people to buy the sway kits. Are we not allowed to share our opinions? Do we have to keep quiet so they just buy the kits instead. Please leave me alone since I am not even attacking you in any way. You have your opinion just like everyone else has theirs.

The way it works is you can share your opinions and then I come along and share what our observations have been and what my research has indicated and then everyone makes up their own mind and does what they want and I fully support them in that. Everyone is always encouraged to question and do whatever they want to in the end provided that it's reasonably safe. But I'm the forum leader, I am just doing my job by making the case when someone posts something that is misleading or wrong in some way. These forums are read by tons of people and I have a responsibility to chime in on every question to keep our threads as full of correct information as I possibly can.

Any "problem" I have with you is down to your tone in like 4 or 5 posts over the past few days in which you seemed to be implying that I perhaps did not have everyone's best interests at heart here. You implied repeatedly and pretty overtly that I was giving people bad advice, that I was stupid or misinformed, that I was telling people things that could medically harm them, or that I was being too uptight and closeminded about old wives tales (or something.) I don't appreciate that and I don't need it in my life.

Just to spell it out clearly, you have now done the following: Implied that I am a) trying to hurt people's sways out of malice or stupidity b) trying to harm people's health and c) am overly sensitive or insane and now d) that I am a money grubber trying to get $$ out of people. That goes beyond sharing an opinion or questioning into an attack on me - all in threads in which YOU posted first - and I felt and feel very attacked by you on kind of a personal level. I didn't even know who you were until I read posts in which I felt attacked or insulted by you. So, you can do the math about what my problem is, because I don't seem to be having this problem with anyone else. I'd like to think that was all accidental, that this was all just a big misunderstanding but I'm kind of thinking nah, I read this situation with accuracy.

My opinion is based on 10 years with thousands of swayers on two different sites and exhausting research. As they say, opinions are like a-holes, everyone's got one. But I can back up my "opinions" with studies and stats and biological reasons. This is also my site and nuthinbutpink's site - we did all the work on it (so much work) and so I'm not really sure why we should have to put up with feeling attacked and insulted.

This job is fun for me, usually. It's a nice place to hang out. I would do it all for free if I could (and honestly I wouldn't mind so I could have a day off now and then, since I never even take days off usually) But I can't, because the option is I sell a few sway plans or I go to work and if I go to work I can't answer any questions. I spend the majority of my time helping people for free. I have all this stuff up here for free so you guys can have it and I add new stuff all the time. I like helping people sway. I'm not trying to get anything from you. If I was, I'd do things very differently, LOL, starting with not giving away anything for free instead of giving away practically everything for free. So again, I am at a loss as to why I should ever have to feel embarrassed, attacked, or insulted. Just don't think I deserve that.

Good luck with your sway, if you're swaying.

[atomic sagebrush]

Question for you Atomic—-I know I’m thread crashing but I’m genuinely curious; why does coffee sway girl but tea (specifically black) sway boy? Or, am I completely out to lunch and they both sway girl??


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping to try for #7 in 2019

No, not at all, great question.

Keeping in mind that this is sheer speculation on my part because we don't have the research yet. But it's because it isn't caffeine that is swaying. It is some chemistry in the coffee and the tea that is swaying. They are pretty different chemically; even though they both have caffeine they're different in other ways and it seems that the coffee has some juju in it that benefits a pink sway, and the tea has some mojo in it that benefit a blue sway. (highly technical terminology there!)

[mommymachine]

No, not at all, great question.

Keeping in mind that this is sheer speculation on my part because we don't have the research yet. But it's because it isn't caffeine that is swaying. It is some chemistry in the coffee and the tea that is swaying. They are pretty different chemically; even though they both have caffeine they're different in other ways and it seems that the coffee has some juju in it that benefits a pink sway, and the tea has some mojo in it that benefit a blue sway. (highly technical terminology there!)

Cool, thanks Atomic! But which one sways twins??


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping for #7 in 2019/2020

Praying for twins !!!

[rayalynn1]

thanks so much. Makes sense. Ill up it when i start my sway!

[atomic sagebrush]

Cool, thanks Atomic! But which one sways twins??


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping for #7 in 2019/2020

Praying for twins !!!

As long as it's got full fat dairy in it, probably either!