I am new here, need help please

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I still think that you should have attempt O-1 and 2 on O Day. you can still have an attempt the day after O as well, that will help guard against delayed ovulation if it occurs. I just don't want you to count on that as being one of the three attempts because if you O on time, it will be too late.

Watermelon and apples are both fine too! Some people just think they need as many bananas as they can eat, but they really aren't very nutritious and are basically 100-150 cals of sugar for very little nutrient benefit.

Many people never eat many vegetables, if you can't add them, that is fine.

DH does not need to do the full diet, any changes he makes will only help. Most important thing is that he stops smoking or cuts back if he is a smoker.

No the sugar in the tapioca is fine as long as you're having protein with it (which you are, in the milk)

Good luck and blue dust!

[Mommyof2daughters]

Thanks a lot, I followed your advice and BD day of Pos Opk, next morning and night, however a day after (which is today), I’m now having O cramps(like I usually do), tested opk again and it came back positive. Don’t know what to do?! I have now gotten 3 unprotected attempts in, what do you advice please.

[atomic sagebrush]

I would have another attempt or two to cover you and then start BD every other day after this in case of delayed O. Good luck and blue dust!!

[Mommyof2daughters]

Thank you Atomic for all your help and advice. I got pregnant this past cycle and I’m about 6weeks pregnant now hoping and praying my sway worked. I had some EWCM and used some preseed (about 1g each attempt) and had total of 4 attempts. I am probably going to be Team green but I can do with good wishes right now. How do I documents my sway?

[Mommyof2daughters]

I would have another attempt or two to cover you and then start BD every other day after this in case of delayed O. Good luck and blue dust!!

Yes to preseed! Full fat yoghurt is also good for a boy sway, I was doing both of those! GL!

Thanks a lot. I used preseed even though I had a little EWCM and I got pregnant first cycle trying. Now I am worried seeing so many DDs conceived while using preseed. Btw, I had 4 attempts from First Pos Opk.

[Throwaway_panther]

Oh wow, congratulations on your pregnancy! Hoping you have a healthy boy in there And I understand your nervousness on preseed -- I used just a tiny amount with baking soda before one of these attempts this pregnancy and have deliberated alot on it haha.

To add your sway, go here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...ow-gender.html

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks a lot. I used preseed even though I had a little EWCM and I got pregnant first cycle trying. Now I am worried seeing so many DDs conceived while using preseed. Btw, I had 4 attempts from First Pos Opk.

4 attempts is great! Good luck and blue dust headed your way! Panther has already posted the link to add your sway (thank u!)

[Brakecheck]

I used Preseed and just found out our blue sway worked! You never know

[Mommyof2daughters]

Oh nice, big congrats.. The statistics of preseed results seem to be 50/50 but as Atomic said, depend on the couples fertility at that time. I am keeping my fingers crossed and right now praying for a healthy baby. Did you have any difference in symptoms?

[Brakecheck]

Thank you! I agree, a lot of these things are 50/50 so it's great to focus on the sum of the whole attempt together rather than one thing. I know they say each pregnancy is different regardless, but I felt my symptoms were slightly different- I've felt less bouts of nausea (I've never had full blown morning sickness) and actually felt like I 'looked' better (I personally felt really dull with my girls). My skin has also been extremely dry which I've never experienced in previous pregnancies. I'd never had a 'gender dream' and had 2 about it being a boy, which I initially disregarded as high hopes lol. Fingers crossed for you!!