you cant carry a baby of that gender question???

[XXdreaming]

Thank you that does make more sense to me, I have had my thyroid and everything else ran up under the son, this time they did my pap and then he said he was running more test to check for bacterial infectious and things, plus the normal blood work for lupus and everything else they take like 6 or 7viles of blood, that was my 1st prenatal visit at 7wks and saw a healthy baby, he even did a gbs test then too because ds4 was a gbs baby he spent 10days in nicu for pnuemonia and he said he was checking early to see if I was + this time so they wouldn't check me much and take extra precautions since I have a higher chance of it crossing over in the womb since it did once before and he was gonna check me later again, so I could have a defective x chromosome but it would only effect my boys not girls, so IF that was the case then more then likely all 5 m/c were boys and with my bad x chromosome, so therefore couldn't survive, it can't be a clotting disorder right? Because I wouldn't of been able to have 4 healthy pregnancies right? Subcorionic hemorrhaging seems to be a norm for me but had 4 healthy boys even with that, what causes subcorionic hemorrhaging can that be another reason for m/cs? I only slightly spotted wiith ds3 for like 2days, all the others with subchorionic hemorrhage I. Never bled or spotted or cramped

[atomic sagebrush]

IF it is an X-linked condition then yes, your losses were a bazillion times more likely boys than girls.

It can still be a clotting or autoimmune disorder tho. Some women have this all the time and then others have it in some pg and not others. Doctors still really don't know the hows and whys of how these things manifest - it could be that a baby with a certain blood type causes you to miscarry while others with a different blood type, may not. Another possibility is a problem with folic acid retention that is worse sometimes than others. The body is an ever-changing thing so you can't always predict what is really going on.

Strange that you are having SCH with all your pg - what does your doc say about that???

When/if you do sway, don't do baby aspirin, cranberry, or Saw Palmetto because that can make SCH worse.

[XXdreaming]

I have been tested for autoimmmune disorder and I don't have, not sure if I been tested for clotting or can you be tested for that? I was taking vitex, folic acid(800mcg) b6(50mg) and azo cranberry pills I quit all of it at ovulation except for b6 and folic acid(of course prenatals), my dr really hasn't said anything about the subchorionic hemorrhage, maybe because I never had issues with the other pregnancies?, or maybe real small one, this time he said it wasn't a big deal and he didn't even expect me to spot from it, maybe it was a very small one, I don't know, I go back in 2wks and I have a list of questions to ask him lol even about the subchorionic hemorrhages

[atomic sagebrush]

I would really advise you in future to not do cran, baby aspirin, or even saw palmetto when you're swaying because of the repeat SCH. Stopping it cold turkey may be just as bad as anything because your body will start cranking out extra clotting chemicals and then stopping the blood thinners cold turkey may make your blood TOO likely to clot which can be just as bad for a developing placenta.

This is true even if you have no diagnosable clotting factors...it may simply be that your body is just extra "good" at making clotting chemicals and overresponds to the presence of blood thinning drugs. It can't hurt (becos remember, most of the baby girls ever conceived were NOT to women taking cran, aspirin, or SP so you can sway without any of those things) and may help.

How much folic? You might want to increase that.

[XXdreaming]

okay I will leave the cranberry out, I didnt take sp or baby aspirin, I said above i was taking 800mcg of folic acid but after I thought about it I was actaully taking 1600mcg of folic acid because my prenatals have 800mcg and I was taking an extra 800mcg, should I increase it? or is 1600mcg enough? I can add another 400mcg to make it 2000mcg, or just add another 800mcg making it 2400mcg? and vitex and b6(50mg) is okay, should i add something else for good egg quality? I know it could sway boy but if I cant stay pregnant then what does it matter anyways yk?