We had our second attempt

[Prayingforagirl67]

Given your family history I would definitely push for the testing. If you don't want to just yet that's fine, I just do not want you to take aspirin without the test.

Im sorry I didn’t specify, she is my aunt by marriage not blood. I’m not sure if I should actually do the testing before trying next month or just see how it goes?

[atomic sagebrush]

It's up to you. Sometimes the docs are reluctant to do the testing until there have been three losses, but if they're willing to do it now then by all means.

I would not hold off trying on that basis. The clotting disorders are definitely possible, but the vast majority of people (even with 2+ losses) don't have them.

[Prayingforagirl67]

It's up to you. Sometimes the docs are reluctant to do the testing until there have been three losses, but if they're willing to do it now then by all means.

I would not hold off trying on that basis. The clotting disorders are definitely possible, but the vast majority of people (even with 2+ losses) don't have them.

I think I’m going to just try again and see what happens, that way I don’t have to fight to get testing, hopefully I won’t need to to!

I also wanted to ask, after my loss I had about 3 ish weeks off diet, possibly 4, I don’t remember exactly because I’ve been working hard on not being anal about things lol. I’ll have in total 7 weeks after my loss back on the sway, with a few cheats, would this be enough sway wise? Do my 13 weeks before my chemical still count if I had 3-4 weeks off?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes they still count. Pregnancy and then loss is taxing and there may be some benefit to trying sooner, so I let you guys start over without the full time on diet and we've gotten good results with that approach.

[Prayingforagirl67]

Yes they still count. Pregnancy and then loss is taxing and there may be some benefit to trying sooner, so I let you guys start over without the full time on diet and we've gotten good results with that approach.

I’m so happy to hear that, I was hoping I didn’t have to start all over, this is our second month trying after the loss so I’m hoping this is the one, (we had a half ass attempt this month but I think we missed it)