My husband is terrified of having a daughter. Sometimes he's really sweet and says he hopes this one is a girl for my sake, and other times, he acts like a selfish arse and says he really hope it's a boy because he couldn't deal with a daughter. He likes to bring all the negative sterotypes possible about girl children as to "scare" me away from wanting one so badly.

There are two sides to every coin, though, and funny enough, he never mentions the bad sterotypes that goes with boys.

I hear you chocolate, sometimes it makes me mad too when I am so much more invested in gender, and my hubby got what he wanted twice, probably three times! All I ever dreamt about was a little girl. I still wish she'd come into my life.