Im sorry you didnt hear boy, I have 2 boys and most likely a 3rd on the way so know how it feels.
Your girls may want to watch sports with you too, and they can still climb tree's and go on adventures, play with lego etc. so try to think of those things to do with your daughters.
My DS says no to me dressing him up in cinderella dresses the spoil sport lol. At least with girls you can do 'boy' things where as with boys you cant really get away with doing girly things together.
Im sure once she is here you will fall in love, I know right now it isnt easy though xx
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Thread: I didn't get my boy :(
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February 28th, 2012, 09:38 AM #11Dream Vet
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February 28th, 2012, 10:58 AM #12
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February 28th, 2012, 12:59 PM #13
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February 28th, 2012, 01:37 PM #14
I was gonna say the same thing. I am sorry you didn't hear boy. ):
My 2 girls are girly but also well-rounded. They like ballet and they like riding bikes and playing soccer. Maybe try to think about yours that way....your children are sort of what you make them, to some degree. Maybe your DD3 will be the next Mia Hamm or Danica Patrick....you never know. I know it's hard though, and big hugs.
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February 28th, 2012, 03:28 PM #15
I'm sorry.
I'm glad she is healthy, but I understand your disappointment. Hang in there.
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February 28th, 2012, 05:21 PM #16
I'm so sorry
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February 28th, 2012, 05:50 PM #17
I'm so sorry. I know once baby is in your arms it will be all washed away.
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February 28th, 2012, 06:01 PM #18Dream Newbie
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Thanks so much everyone.
I feel better today after having a chat with DH last night. He said these were the cards we have been dealt so I have to build a bridge and find a way to get over it.. LOL.. He also said it was the least important of the two bits of information we got so we should just be happy that the baby is healthy. I have decided (for now) that there will be no dance classes, I couldn't think of anything worse than spending the next 15 years watching dancing... LOL
There won't be anymore children, I am getting my tubes tied after this one. Our plan was always just to have 2 kids, but we thought we would give having a boy a shot. We both went into it promising each other we would be happy if it was another girl but I guess you never know how you will react until you get there. We have decided not to tell anyone until she is born to avoid all the comments. We figure it will be harder for people to comment when she's here..
Once again thank you so very much.Me: 38
DH: 37
DD: Oct 2008
DD: May 2010
BFP 22 Dec 2011 - DD3: Due 04 Sept 2012
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February 28th, 2012, 07:44 PM #19
At least you know you did all you could to try and have a boy.
I am a bit afraid now doing my sway. I never was disappointed when I was told I was having another DS with each of my boys, but now that I am swaying I will be very disappointed if I am told boy, that sounds so bad. I would love above all to have a healthy baby. Lots of Hugs to you XXX