♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[begonia]

Oh Lola. That is so hard to hear; I can totally understand the depressed state resulting from that interaction. I think you SHOULD take the time off ... let them do the tests (FX they find something they can act on, and don't just leave you with no explanation) and you get yourself to a healthy weight and healthy mental place, you know? I know you don't WANT to "take a breather" you want to get pregnant, but it sure sounds like maybe your body wants you to rest. How is DH doing with it? I hope he is being supportive of you. I'm so sorry this has been such a tough road for you. I really, really believe you will have another baby though. Hugs to you.

Mmsgirlie what is up with your DH changing his mind?!?! No fair. Can't do that! Does he have reasons? Or just being moody?

Jen, I hope that BFP shows up. Sure sounds like you're still in the game!

[SpicyTunaSushi]

Ok guys,

I was required to keep up with the CBE digi's for the study that I am in. Anyway, i have been getting MAD amounts of ewcm- it is unbelievable! I think it is all from the supplements- so keep up with them.

Anyway- we dtd yesterday at 2pm bc I wasn't sure if I would be one of those people who ever got a smiley and didn't want to miss my window with this crazy fertile CM.

But I just got a smiley- it is 6pm here my time. So, should we:

1. not dtd- since I will have dtd 2 days before O (approx)
2. DTD tonight- less than 48 hours apart.
3. DTD tomorrow morning- about 40 hours between dtd (O+12)?
4. DTD tomorrow afternoon- 48 hours apart- but possibly running into O+12

Please let me know what you would do. I believe DH has hubby has good sperm count bc when we were dtd to ttc dd, we dtd 9 days in a row before O, so something must have been left!

Thanks for your help in advance- sorry I am so needy- once I get in the tww I will be more relaxed and chatty.

[lightofmylife]

Oh Lala..... ((HUGSS))... U R REALLY GOING THROUGH A VERY STRESSFUL PHASE .. but i think u must take rest from ttc for few month, its good that atleast now u know whats going on with ur body, let it take rest and be prepared for a healthy pragnancy.
Mmsgirlie . give him time.. try not to discuss ttc for some time, he would surly back in action , my dh did it same few months back and i took off for 3 months , now he dosnt scream over my menu.

[SpicyTunaSushi]

Hey everyone...3PNB, you ain't out yet, sorry it's taking so long! My appt yesterday was DEPRESSING to say the least. My uterus has a slim smooth lining at least and everything is out, so I don't need any d&c action. I stopped bleeding officially last night, because my pad was clear this morning, so I am done. My midwife was very realistic with me, which I love about her, but it also kinda sucked, because the tired-of-this part of me wanted her to say, "Oh, it was just bad luck to have 2 m/c in a row, just wait a month and jump on it again!" Instead, she says, "Well, I am sending you to the lab for some testing. You may have a clotting disorder, and you may have something that is preventing you and this particular man from creating life, something in your body is attacking and making the embryos not grow." Also, she is making Dh have a semen analysis, which my old doctor said we could do if we wanted. She wants them to check him out, just to be sure. So, she hands me the scrips for our lab work and on them in big letters it says PATIENT: Dx RECURRENT MISCARRIAGE. I just hated that. I am officially a recurrent miscarriage woman. She wants us to wait 3 months, and says if we go ahead and try before that, don't be surprised if we have another m/c because my body really needs time to heal and my lining to get back to normal. So, I'm just BLAH, ARG, MEH right now. I guess we'll be ttc again in August, which makes me even more depressed, because our first month ttc was LAST AUGUST. So, it will officially be a whole year of my life that I have been totally insane and spent more than 50% of my consciousness focused on ttc.

On a good note, I am starting to eat more, but I just feel awful about myself right now....I feel broken and fat and just bad. I think I am going to take this month off from the diet and lose some weight. I am definitely going through a depressive phase right now, because I don't want food and cry a lot, and I want to drink wine every night. So, hopefully this break will do me some good anyway.

Despite all that, still cheering all of you ladies on, lots of luck to the 2wwers now!!!!

Oh Lola, I am sorry to hear that things are down right now. Keep taking your fish oil- it is supposed to help with the blues and depression.

[Flava]

Skrimpy make sure u get a big O! Helps to break waters
Ladies so wdyt? I am in hospital with my eldest dd not sure how long for but cant take my supps drinks or diet will this affect my pH that was looking soooo good yesterday by stopping for a few days :s

What is going on with her? Hope you don't have to stay long there! Tell DH to bring in at least the sups for you and sure he can get the great tea and some juice in too.

[SpicyTunaSushi]

Skrimpy make sure u get a big O! Helps to break waters
Ladies so wdyt? I am in hospital with my eldest dd not sure how long for but cant take my supps drinks or diet will this affect my pH that was looking soooo good yesterday by stopping for a few days :s

Surely you can pick up some potassium rich juices at the hospital- and some french fries! They always have those! Whenever I am out- and have to order something- get these lovely orange, pineapple, mango smoothies. Lots of potassium!

[Flava]

3pink I still hope you get a bfp!!
light sorry i have no clue about the chili...Im sure green tea is best if we cook it. You know not the bottled ones..
Atomic says it's ok to eat chicken but best if not grilled.

[Flava]

skrimpy I just can't wait to see that baby girl!

[Flava]

ello loves. add me to the May Swayers....hopefully. DH is being an extreme butthead at the moment and acting like he doesn't want to try. I've had my IUD removed and everything.

Blah

sorry mm! maybe make a nice romantic night for him and he changes his mind fast!

[Flava]

spicy I see you got a +opk so I would DTD today. GL!
oh I just read your other post! If you get 2 days of +opk do it tomorrow. If only 1 day dtd tonight.

Why did you think you are not gonna get a +opk this month?
Personally I would not dtd without a =opk. but it's just me.