TTC Blue Crew Grads

[TTC5]

hopeful - So glad your UTD!!!!

[Tink18]

Hopeful....yayyyyy welcome back and congrats! Xoxox

[dloui128]

So I posted my 13 week nub shots and although alot of people said boy I just really feel it is a girl. DH wants to be team green but mentally I don't think I can handle that, if this is a girl I need to mentally prepare myself so by the time she gets here I am ok with everything. So do you think it is wrong if I find out gender and just not tell anyone? DH isn't firm on being team green he just thought it would "be fun" I don't find it fun, its giving me anxiety, I just need to know either way so I can prepare and get over it.

[Hobbermittens]

So I posted my 13 week nub shots and although alot of people said boy I just really feel it is a girl. DH wants to be team green but mentally I don't think I can handle that, if this is a girl I need to mentally prepare myself so by the time she gets here I am ok with everything. So do you think it is wrong if I find out gender and just not tell anyone? DH isn't firm on being team green he just thought it would "be fun" I don't find it fun, its giving me anxiety, I just need to know either way so I can prepare and get over it.

Are you going to find out and not tell DH? I tried that last time, but when I found out it was a girl, I was so upset he made me tell him what was wrong (he thought there was something wrong with the baby). But if you are having a boy, then I bet you can keep the secret, because you will be happy! Just don't let him see all the blue stuff you buy.

[dloui128]

Are you going to find out and not tell DH? I tried that last time, but when I found out it was a girl, I was so upset he made me tell him what was wrong (he thought there was something wrong with the baby). But if you are having a boy, then I bet you can keep the secret, because you will be happy! Just don't let him see all the blue stuff you buy.

I think that's what I'm going to do, I just really feel it's a girl and I want to prepare myself for it mentally, think of names etc so that when she finally gets here I will hopefully be ok with everything. I can't go on like this for another 6 months it's making me miserable and everyone around me notices it. It's especially hard this time because it is my last baby for sure and I'm sad I will never get to experience a son

[Hobbermittens]

I think that's what I'm going to do, I just really feel it's a girl and I want to prepare myself for it mentally, think of names etc so that when she finally gets here I will hopefully be ok with everything. I can't go on like this for another 6 months it's making me miserable and everyone around me notices it. It's especially hard this time because it is my last baby for sure and I'm sad I will never get to experience a son

Don't give up hope! You got lots of boy guesses, and you really may have a boy in there. I hope you are pleasantly surprised!

[girlmom]

check up yesterday. still 5cm but she did feel contractions and then jumped back and told me not to sneeze because the babys head is right there. yes i know all this, i can feel it. she put me on the monitors and i was making some pretty waves and having lots of contractions. but its not changing my cervix any further then a 5 right now. she thinks i will go this week sometime and gave me a 0% chance of making it until my due date. but this is the same doctor who said i would have a 24 week micro-preemie.
in the meantime im off all meds and off bedrest!! i went shopping yesterday and some lady stopped me and said, "omg i hope you are having twins or triplets, because i've never seen anyone this big." so now im going back to bed to hide until the end of this pregnancy.

[Hobbermittens]

Good news girlmom! Sounds like you are getting along fine. I am so impressed you made it this far! As far as strangers making crappy comments, I have been there too. Every pregnancy someone tells me I am huge.

[WashingtonPromise]

hopeful: Congrats!!! How exciting to be expecting again. I can't wait to hear an update.

dloui: I know doulamama kept her baby's gender a secret her whole pregnancy.

girlmom: At least you got some good news from your doc, I would love to hear "your not going to make it until your due date".

TTC5: Wow, over 7 lbs at 4 wks early....you guys really grow some big babies.



Stranger's comments must be on the rise, I had 2 people tell me today that I must be over due and then someone else was afraid to get too close incase I "popped". It didn't bother me too bad, but I do wish I would pop.

[dloui128]

Don't give up hope! You got lots of boy guesses, and you really may have a boy in there. I hope you are pleasantly surprised!

Thanks Hobber I hope so too, I just don't think thats going to happen