Anyone swaying april/may?

[praying4princess]

Well ladies, its on to May for me.......AF decided to show this morning a couple days early. I just really got my hopes up with that spotting last week, so Im extremely disappointed. Now Im worried because I didnt stay on the diet well this week, and I dont want to mess up this months sway. I wish I knew what went wrong so I could try something differently for this time around. I have to go out today and buy more vitamins and OPK's and all of that crap....

[wishing on a star]

Well ladies, its on to May for me.......AF decided to show this morning a couple days early. I just really got my hopes up with that spotting last week, so Im extremely disappointed. Now Im worried because I didnt stay on the diet well this week, and I dont want to mess up this months sway. I wish I knew what went wrong so I could try something differently for this time around. I have to go out today and buy more vitamins and OPK's and all of that crap....

So sorry to hear that hunny , I know how disappointed you must feel right now!! I'm sure you haven't messed anything up by being off the diet for a few days just make sure u get back on it asap!! You had a really good sway last month so stick with what your doing!! If your not in a rush to get pregnant straight away then I would stick with your timing that you did last time, if not then would you consider frequent bd through O or maybe even a O +12?!
sending you lots of hugs and please don't get discouraged it will be your turn soon I promise
Xxxxx

[Three Gorgeous Pickles]

Oh P4P, I am so sorry to hear that. Its horrible isn't it? Every month since my miscarriage in october i have been sure that i am pregnant in the 2ww - i have nausea, sore boobs and tiredness but then AF shows up - im sure my brain plays tricks on me because i want to be pregnant soooo much.
Im sorry you are on to May,- you can join me for the may sway. Do you think you will try abstaining again? We have decided to do 7-10days of frequent release/BD and then cut off just before i get a positive OPK, which should be about a 2 day cut off hopefully. I dont think we will use sylk this month as we have every month so far and no BFP! I feel that we have tried most timing methods now, which is why we are back to frequent BD.
The baby that i miscarried in october was conceived from abstainence and 0+12. Since then we have tried abstaining with 0+12, abstaining with cut off, and then last month and this month we are trying frequent release/BD. Both our boys were conceived very easily with BDing every other day through ovulation, so we are trying to do it a bit different to that.
I really hope May is the month for both of us, and anyone else that is joining us to sway in May - good luck.

[Glittergirl]

Hey girls I went out and bought more tests and the line is really dark now!!! Yay! It's kinda hard to get excited because on top of all this I am really sick! I think I have strep throat. I've had 103 fever and just feel like crap! Wishing--guess I'm pregnant with you! When would your due date be?? Thanks for the well wishes Pickles! I'm happy to be done with the diet, I've never been good at diets! Praying--I'm so sorry AF showed up! I was so sure this is your month with the implantation bleeding and all but I will be on the May board cheering you all on!!!! On to May girls!!! Goodluck!!!

[Three Gorgeous Pickles]

Hey GG, congratulations-that is fantastic that the line got darker and its a definate positive. Im so happy for you. I hope your throat gets better soon and you can enjoy being pregnant - yipee, well done

[praying4princess]

Thank you everyone! Im just very upset and not having a good day. I went out and bought more OPK's and supplements and CL and all of that fun stuff....and when I was checking out, the lady saw the box of OPK's and said "Should I say good luck!".....I had to fight back tears right there in Walgreens. Then she saw the boys and asked if we were wanting a girl this time! I said "yes" and she went on to tell me she has 3 boys and she had given up on a girl and then she up and got pregnant last year and it was her girl! It was kind of weird because all of our boys were the same ages too! Huh!

Wishing~ I dont know, Im kind of scared about BDing on O day!! I figured us DTD the day before I O'd would hit the nail on the head! I know Ive said this on here, even though I know GOD decides the sex and time and absolutely everything, BUT now that Im TTC in May Im nervous because the Chinese calendar has it as boy month for me!! I shouldnt worry about that rubbish, but its still in the back of my mind! Im just going to trust in God and pray and whatever is in His will, will be anyway! What does the chinese calendar say about the sex for you guys???
Pickles~ it is absolutely horrible. The devil played a horrible trick on me. I dont know girls what Im going to do about timing this time....on O scares me...but I may try to aim for the day before again, I dont know. I wish I knew why I didnt get pregnant so I could better figure out a new plan! I havent decided yet if Im going to use the Rephresh again or try something new. My only question about it was that my pH was up to arund 5.5-6, 30 minutes after DTD, and I added just a tiny bit more....I wonder if maybe I killed all of them doing that BUT how else would I get my pH back down around 4-4.5??

[praying4princess]

[QUOTE=Glittergirl;29915]Hey girls I went out and bought more tests and the line is really dark now!!! Yay! It's kinda hard to get excited because on top of all this I am really sick! I think I have strep throat. I've had 103 fever and just feel like crap! Wishing--guess I'm pregnant with you! When would your due date be?? Thanks for the well wishes Pickles! I'm happy to be done with the diet, I've never been good at diets!

Praying--I'm so sorry AF showed up! I was so sure this is your month with the implantation bleeding and all but I will be on the May board cheering you all on!!!! On to May girls!!! Goodluck!!!

Thank you Glitter!! I was so sure too! God must have another month in mind for me!

[wishing on a star]

Congratulations Glittergirl so pleased for you, my due date is around the 28th december so another christmas babay for me hummmm lol!! Whens your due date? Are you having many symptons yet?
P4P i know what you mean about the whole timing thing if it were me in your position then i would probably go for similar timing again as well as i would be nervous about bd through O but thats just my opinion!! I really wouldnt worry about the chinese calender hun as i have found so many different versions of them, 1 said that april was a boy month for me then three others said it was a girl month!! Every time i check them for my ds they come up wrong apart from 1 that i found the other day!!
xxxx

[praying4princess]

I dont know why Im even worried about that rubbish calendar!! I am a Christian and believe God is in control of everything and that everything happens according to His will!! So I know either way, boy or girl, it is for a reason beyond my comprehension!! All I can do is pray and ask God to bless us with a healthy baby girl...He knows whats in my heart!

I hope that doesnt offend anyone by any means, just trying to remind myself!! I know everyone has different beliefs so please dont take that personally!

[Glittergirl]

Wishingonastar--myEDD is jan 10th so we wont be far apart!n Yay I have a due date buddy!!! I don't know why i'm still so in shock about this pregnancy. part of me is afraid to tell anyone until I get a heartbeat, I got preg so fast with the douching and diet....part of me thinks this is another boy....then I wonder well if this is a girl, will I want a sister for her?? Dh is so calm about these things and thinks that I think too far ahead. I'm so nervous about this maybe cause it's our last baby. I really wanted 3, max 4 kids. Dh jokes about more--I think he would have 5 but I know this will be my last. P4P--I know what you mean about the calendar--I usually don't believe in things like OWT etc. I also think God has a plan for everyone so even with the swaying I take it lightly cause we're going to get what god has planned for us. But I also was afraid to try for May cause the calendar that is right for my 3DS said April is girl month but May is boy so i was leaning toward skipping may but then again I don't think i could have skipped a month of TTC. By the way--Have you thought of frequent BD? I think the abstinence aspect results in a lot of "old" sperm that aren't as healthy. I could have sworn I saw Atomic post that somewhere. My dh is older, 44, but very healthy, runs everyday rain or shine, and eats extremely healthy but even still I was afraid of the abstinence because of her post. Maybe this time you can bd frequently with a 1-2 day cutoff. there may be better swimmers that way.