Any blue swayers TTC in dec 2013

[Boysway]

I think it's more anything below 10 is a concern for LP. I have the Preseed as part of my sway plan. I insert a small amount about the size of a thumb nail (maybe a little more) for 5 days leading up to ovulation. Then I use double that for the attempt. Unfortunately first attempt I forgot to use it. Second attempt bd didn't happen so I don't know if there would have been too much moisture. In saying that, I sometimes have trouble in that department (without the supps).

I'm still waiting for a new cycle to begin. I didn't ovulate till CD 21, FF is predicting AF will start in four days. I just want this cycle to be over with!

Wishing you huge good luck Ewpnx1

[Ewpnx1]

i had same sorot of cycle in may very frustrating..tommorow DD bday so all geared up for the fun

[Boysway]

Grrr, stuppoo

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[crazycatcouple]

Ewpnx1, how was DD's birthday celebration? My DD's was 2 weeks ago, but her 3rd. I completely understand how you're feeling on the age gap stuff. I always wanted kids about 3 years apart, but now we'll be lucky if it's 4 years :-( I've heard that 6 years or more is like being an only child to them, which I'd like to avoid.

Boysway, how do you feel about the larger age gaps with your daughters? Do you have any positives we can focus on? That's what I'm trying to do - find the positives and try and not think about the negatives...

Oh, and did you end up getting AF Boysway? I'm assuming you would have posted if you got a BFP, but maybe you're just too excited to think about us right now, lol. Fingers crossed that's the case!

I also get AF about 10-12 days after O. I was concerned at one point and thought about taking vitamin B supplements, which is supposed to lengthen the luteal phase, but I know Atomic does not suggest that, so I figured I'd wait another round or two first.

We just had our attempt last week - only 3 attempts as well, but it was at the very end of our vacation, so I'm hoping the relaxation from that helps scoot those boys along ;-) This is our 3rd month TTCing. I think if it doesn't happen this time, I'll likely give it another month before I go talk to a doctor about it. Expnx1, I would love to hear what they tell you when you go, if you don't mind.

[Ewpnx1]

Hi Crazycat, when i went there after 6 months of TTC they ordered some blood tests for me like FSH progesterone TSH etc..n sperm count for hubby. His count came low which understandable as its not much fun to ejaculate without regualr studd lol..anyways i am waiting for this month..we did tried as i ovulated on my DD bday and we did make 4-5 attempts leading upto O day so lets see..if it doesnt work this time GP did tell me he would be happy to write a referral yo fertility clinic..so i will wait for 2 weeks and if nothing will try to go get help as i dont want to wait too long now..i have been trying off and on for 6 months.. when is AF due for you guys?

[Boysway]

Lol. Sorry about that last message. I was having trouble with my phone. I didn't realise it had posted.

Ewpnx, I hope your dd had a lovely birthday

crazycatcouple, I'm the same as you guys and I preferred a close age gap which is why dd#1 and #2 were so close in age. Ex and I started trying for #2 pretty much as soon as dd#1 was 6 weeks old. Unfortunately dd#2 passed away due to SIDS at 5months old and I didn't want to try right away for another baby.

So, for me the only reason I have the age gaps is due to circumstances out of my control for the most part. DD#4 is my husbands first child and we got together when dd#3 was 1 1/2 years old. I didn't want a baby right away. The reason there will be a bigger gap between dd#4 and whenever we get a bfp this time around is because dd#4 was a difficult baby and I didn't come around to the idea of another baby till she was about 2 1/2-3 years old (she was 4 in April).

Yep, no bfp for me There were some 'performance' anxieties so nothing happened Af is just finishing and ovulation should be early July I have dh on some tablets I hope and will help with last cycles problem.

Regarding the vitamin B, double check with atomic. Vitamin B was recommended for me. I had to stop taking it because it delayed ovulation too much. I decided to start Brewers yeast as that apparently doesn't affect the cycle as much. I suspect that is what delayed my ovulation date (day 21 last cycle from day 19 previously and LP of 14). I'll stay on the Brewers yeast as I feel I need that vitamin B which is what the Brewers yeast tablets contain. Fingers crossed you both get your bfp soon

[Ewpnx1]

I understand Boysway each family is different and requirements are also different of different kids. Hopefully we all get what we want soon

[crazycatcouple]

Oh, I didn't even realize that brewers yeast had vitamin B in it! I do take that as part of my regime :-) That makes a lot of sense too because I have always had a 28 day cycle with ovulation at day 14, but the past 3 or 4 months, I'd had a 30 day cycle and ovulation is more the 16th day - must be the brewer's yeast!

Yes, circumstances seem to be king, as far as family planning goes. I am sorry about dd#2 Boysway :-( I can only imagine how hard that time in your life must have been and probably still effects you. I'm sure one of the pluses to having your kids further apart, especially them being girls, is that they are likely more of a help with each new baby, being older and more capable. I have many friends who had their kids one after the other, but there is not much help from the older kiddos, since they are still practically babies themselves! So there's one positive :-) We'll all have great little helpers for our little baby boys!

Ewpnx1 - AF is due sometimes between the 23rd and the 25th, depending on if I go 28 or 30 days. It seems like it fluctuates a little, as I take the brewers yeast less religiously because I don't like the texture of the pills, lol.

I'm going to wait until the 23rd to test I think... I'm trying really hard this time around not to obsess over it all and to just relax :-) It's tough, but at the same time, I've been enjoying my wine lately and I know that once I get confirmation of a BFP, that will be no more. Not that I'm getting drunk of course, just in case, but even though my doctor last time around told me I could have a glass each night, I didn't have but one here and there in my third trimester because, why chance it, right? Man, I sound like a drunk, lol. I swear I don't drink that much!! I've just been enjoying my wine lately since I know I will be without it for the next year or so :-) Trying to make the best of it since it seems we can't seem to actually get pregnant!

If we go one more month without a BFP, I'm going to go get some testing done. I know most doctors here won't suggest it until you've been trying for a year, but I definitely don't want to wait that long. And honestly, why not test earlier? What's the harm? If there is an issue, you might as well find out sooner than later!!

Haha, I just looked at my incredibly long post...sorry for all my gabbing! I'm a talker, if you hadn't noticed :-) Thanks for putting up with me ladies!

[crazycatcouple]

Okay, so it worked! My hubby doesn't want me to share the news yet, but I needed to tell someone :-) Fingers crossed its our little blue bundle! Hope to hear some good news from you ladies soon as well!!

[oncue]

ccc that's awesome! I haven't been around too much lately but pop in to see how everyone's going every now and then! congrats that's such fabulous news, so so so excited for u!! Yay!! xo