Thanks for the advise everyone am going out of my mind at the minute as i started on the 3rd March and am now 34/35 days in his cycle and still not the slightest sign of a period arriving. Had a massive row with husband last night because I'm upset and all he does is yell at me. He has no clue how I feel at all. Did another test yesterday and no surprises it came back negative but I was so disappointed. Made an appointment at the doctors today and I'm scared of what they are going to find. What if this is it???? Scared that the two Ivf attempts and huge amount of stims have dried up all my eggs as low amh means I haven't got many anyway. Is this possible??? I'd like to believe it all stems from Ivf attempt in Feb but as it was a fresh transfer even with being all the cyclogest I came on a day later than I was meant to. I have never ever been this late only when I've been pregnant. I don't think I could cope if I can never have another baby again, I'm a mess. I've just cried since last week and had a bottle of wine to myself last night not good. I'm so hot in the morning I know my temps are really high and again this morning.... Just what's going on in there
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April 7th, 2016, 05:42 AM #211Dreamer
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April 7th, 2016, 05:49 AM #212
Afrevert, I hope your youngest is better soon. Poor thing! What tests have you been getting the squinters on?
jenny, your timing is perfect, stick with E4D.
Pinklady, maybe you have a cyst? Though honestly your cycle isn't that long yet.
For all of you testing, keep in mind most don't get BFPs before 10-11dpo. And some won't get BFPs until 15dpo or later, though this is less common.Last edited by maidentomother; April 7th, 2016 at 05:51 AM.
My Ovulation Chart currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP
TTC #1- swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!
Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after removìng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic
Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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April 7th, 2016, 05:57 AM #213Dream Vet
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I know with dd1 I tested on 9 DPO and it was negative, 10 DPO was a squinter, and 11 DPO is the one I showed my husband because it was more seeable. So hopefully I'm only 9 DPO this morning.
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April 7th, 2016, 06:05 AM #214
I have just been to my nhs fertility appointment and if I don't get pregnant this time with the fsh injections they are not prepared to help with anymore or with ivf in my case because I dont quilfy for yelp due to already having children. The only thing they are prepared to do is try another version of clomid in 3months time and they would want to try that then for 3 months, if after thee 3 months I still have not gotten a BFP then they will see if my tubes are blocked and only then! Also they won't be monitored with ultrasound scans either because the nhs won't pay for that! Nhs won't pay for my metformin 850mg tablets either say they are too expensive will only pay for 500mg if I wanted. Wtf I have bought the 850mg myself from the private clinic and they are only £8-9! Nhs doc also said I don't need to take them once i know I'm pregnant, against everything I have been told and read!
Why is it all about money it's nhs we pay our national insurance! How dare they say they won't help because I already have children nobody has a right to tell you how many children you can have! Arh frustrating!
hoping I do get my BFP with a sticky bean next week!Last edited by Beautifulrainbow; April 7th, 2016 at 06:22 AM.
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April 7th, 2016, 06:19 AM #215Dreamer
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That is crap and I completely agree with you. My doctor said nhs wouldn't be interested either due to me already having children doesn't make me feel any less gutted about not being able to have anymore than someone who has non, although I appreciate that must be terrible. I had to pay for two rounds of Ivf privately both failed wouldn't stick So resorting to trying myself but so far no luck. Just can't afford anymore Ivf now... Going to doctors tonight to discuss options but I'm not overly hopeful. Good luck anyway and I hope it works out for u xxx
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April 7th, 2016, 06:25 AM #216
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April 7th, 2016, 06:27 AM #217
(((Hugs))) pinklady35 hope you get a better result than I did!
I have a friend with the same attitude as the nhs, she doesn't have any children and is on the waiting list to see someone on nhs, she keeps saying to me you should be great full you got 3 already and can't understand why I feel gutted I'm struggling to have 1 more!
I thought I read a few years ago that the nhs were prepared to fund 1 round of ivvf for everyone experiencing fertility problems! If they already have children or not, maybe that is a postcode lottery!Last edited by Beautifulrainbow; April 7th, 2016 at 06:47 AM.
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April 7th, 2016, 08:43 AM #218Dreamer
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Maiden following ds1 I got a period at 9 months and pregnant at 10 months post partum. After ds2 I got a period at 11 months and was pregnant at 13 months postpartum. Currently I am 17 months postpartum with no cycle in sight.
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April 7th, 2016, 08:44 AM #219Dreamer
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After ds1 I did take vitex which may have influenced the return of my cycle
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April 7th, 2016, 09:31 AM #220Dream User
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Decided to take a digital test today!!! Got a BFP!!
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Maiden - I was using Easy @ Home pregnancy tests before the digital. I have now received a BFP 13 days after DTD with all of my pregnancies. I hope this isn't a sign that it is another boy! Will love the baby to the moon and back regardless of gender, but praying for a healthy baby girl! I really hope this one sticks. I did have an early miscarriage in January.
FX for everyone testing. I took a digital test yesterday morning at 10dpo and it was a BFN.
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