Sept 2WW

[mammacass]

Sorry to hear hopper and Netti.

Jelliebellie sorry you are feeling down I too have long cycles and the thought of waiting another month after AF arrives is very deflating

Good luck boyzmummy and boysboys

I am also BFN this morning at 10DPO and had a little spotting, feeling out too [emoji17]


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[Pbn3]

Sorry mammacass was really hoping to hear different

[Magical22]

Sorry netti

Big hugs to the ladies feeling down this ttc rollercoaster sucks so bad!! Can't believe I start IVF next month [emoji15]


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[Magical22]

Sorry to hear hopper and Netti.

Jelliebellie sorry you are feeling down I too have long cycles and the thought of waiting another month after AF arrives is very deflating

Good luck boyzmummy and boysboys

I am also BFN this morning at 10DPO and had a little spotting, feeling out too [emoji17]


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Sorry to hear [emoji17]


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[Quinn31]

Is it really bad to test with an OPK first thing in the morning? I really don't want to hold my urine for the whole morning!


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[twointow83]

Okay I lied and have one more question. [emoji30] we dtd yesterday on day 11 and I probably won't O until 14. I got paranoid and jumped the gun. Should I skip tonight or dtd every night. We are going out of town with my parents so dtd on the 14 is going to be tricky and might not happen. [emoji17] this is my third cycle using opks and they've been positive on 14 and the 13 so I'm not really sure when I'll O. I'm temping for the first time this month. So should I dtd 12 and 13 or just wait until day 13 before we drive up north? Sorry, I'm so paranoid!!


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If you are swaying boy, the more attempts the better but atomic recommends at least 3 I think...

[twointow83]

Just had spotting when I went to the toilet, only on the tissue when I wiped and it was brown. So muddled now. Could be AF on her way at 11DPO if cycle was shorter than I thought or could be IB at 6DPO...I put on a panty liner anyway just in case. Feel sick with nerves. Was NEVER like this before, we were ttc with opks on our boys so I just KNEW I was pg then. This cycle has been on big question mark and I am clueless about when I Oed so feel totally lost and in limbo. Time will tell. Not counting myself out but never had IB on the boys so have NO clue what it looks or feels like or when it can appear. Argh, I'm going for coffee with my mother and the boys hoping it will take my mind off the whole thing!!

Quinn multiple attempts for blue is definitely the way to go. Fit it in whenever wherever and you are surely gonna catch that egg x

Netti hun, sleep tight. Sending tonnes of pink bfp vibes your way x

IB is brown or pink... never red. So, brown could be good!

[twointow83]

I m joining u girls for 2ww. I m thinking of checking on 9 dpo. Last time i got + on 9 dpo. Fingers crossed.
Bded last night n couldnt sleep afterwards. I was too restless thinking what if its a boy. I had a bad gd with last one. This is our last one so getting too anxious.
I guess i bded on O itself. I hope timing doesnt sway.
With my first one i had multiple attempts but with second i had one attempt on positive opk.
But my lh surge was never that dark b4 if it makes a difference or not.
I got + opk on cd16 at noon n bded at night around 12 pm
I hope its right n i still caught the egg. I had bad back pain since evening yesterday b4 bding.

Timing doesn't sway... attempts do. This is my BD record with my pregs. My DD and one son both were O BD's BUT my with my son it wasn't the ONLY attempt! :finger: for you!

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[twointow83]

Hi ladies, catching up on the chatter here. Lots happening!

Hopper - fx that the spotting was IB! I def understand the big question mark over when you O'ed, I'm in the same boat despite getting a +OPK and have no idea whether I actually O'ed around then or O'ed at all!

MaaMaa - I was the one who had asked about your DPOs! My cycle is all over the map, too, with longest cycle before this being 39 days. Today is CD46. Nothing is happening over here - no AF and no BFPs.

I think I'm starting to lose my grip today, ladies. I've been really emotional the past 2 days and feel like bursting into tears at the drop of a hat, really depressed. I never really experienced the 2ww before but now I certainly understand the toll it takes. For those of you who have been trying for various cycles, you have my admiration. I'm so sick of being stuck in babymaker limbo over here!!! I already have less cycles per year to get preggo since AF doesn't come before CD35, I'm 32, I've read it's normal to have 2 cycles per year where you don't ovulate, and now AF is nowhere in sight. And there's only a 20% chance I'd get preggo if all circumstances were perfect anyway! I feel like I am wasting time here and just want to start at CD1 again so we can try again. [emoji26] I feel like the odds are against me and it's so cruel that my body isn't cooperating right now. I don't know who or what to be angry at. I guess
I'm just angry at myself for being wired wrong.

But so far, peeing on Wondfos has broken my spirit and I'm still praying for AF to come. I've got full bbs and pulling/pinching on my left side, plus feel dizzy even sitting down. But since this is my first time TTC I have no idea what signs to look for. Maybe it's just a cyst on the left side that's doing all this?

Sorry for long rant. [emoji53] So cranky today and feel so alone.


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Maybe talk to your doc about clomid?? It sways girl too... Atomic considers it the gold standard of swaying or something like that. I took it because my cycles were long too!

[twointow83]

The well wishes are much appreciated ladies. Unfortunately I am 99.9% sure I'm out this month. Bleeding has increased and is red now, not heavy like my AF usually is but I have little doubt it will continue to increase to a full flow overnight. Also cramps have slowly kicked up a notch feeling much more like AF cramps than the twingy cramps I had earlier. And BBs are fine now too. Have to admit that even with all my doubts about having had a less desirable sway this month I am really disappointed. I think I had hoped that if I got a BFP this month it would just take the whole thing out of my hands, I'm just sick of swaying and wish I could stop. Will be on LE 21 weeks tomorrow, two months of cardio four times a week at minimum, I'm more than over it now.
Am contemplating going to my GP tomorrow and telling him my AF arrived at 11DPO and with my BW this past month I'm hopeful he might rx Clomid, only downside is trying to get a last minute appointment for something thats not deemed an emergency but if I don't make the appt for tomorrow it would be Monday before I'm seen and I'd be on CD5. I'd ideally like to do 3-7 on Clomid if possible but will take what I can get obviously. I'm even doubtful he would rx it but want to try make my October attempt as strong as possible.
Have taken it easy with diet and exercise the past fortnight so will get back to hardcore from tomorrow. Oh the thoughts of it
One question girls, I haven't done OPKs this cycle as I felt they were so stressful when ttc our boys but after this cycle being so all over the place and not having a clue when O was cause my EWCM was all but non existant I'm wondering if I should use them next cycle. WWYD?

I'd use them. Seems like they would be FAR less stressful than this cycle has been for you. (((HUGS)))