September Babies Continued

[fish2012]

Oh I'm so lame even typing that post has made me cry

[Southern Butterfly]

Oh Fish you are not overreacting AT ALL! I got tears in my eyes just reading that. It is very callous of the midwife to talk about "disposing" your baby! That's just awful. Your sweet little angel deserves a proper burial service as she/he was indeed a little person. You and your baby both deserve more respect than that and as a mother you deserve the chance to grieve, I think a nice service would help bring you closure. Don't let anyone rob you of the chance to celebrate your little one's life even if it was so tragically brief. HUGS to you mama.

[Girlsway]

Southern your little Julian is geogeous.
I keep on thinking how is my little one going to look..
Not long now. I have strong tightnings through our the day and night. They are very small conteactions, so things have started to move on.

[Wanting-a-girl]

Fish your not over reacting... I would personally probably burry the baby at home...if the burial by the hospital can't be done.... I def would not let them dispose of it with the placenta... That would feel wrong to me... It's your baby its still a life that you cherished

So my dr said there is nothing else he can give me and said that the risks low... Well I have really bad luck and I'm not willing to take the small risk... He said its my choice and I'm risking getting a kidney infection... Ummmm if I had a bladder infection would it not have showed on my dip stick thing today? Cause it didn't

Yes when I was preg with ds3 I prepared myself mentally for hell cause I really did not have any idea what life was going to be like with ds2 having severe behavior problems....in the end it turned out amazing... People constantly said I don't know how your doing it... Well if you saw what I expected then you would see lolcause this is amazing compared to what I was thinking... I just don't see it being the same this time cause ds3 literally oly likes me I feel like he's going to fel abandoned... I'm going to try very hard to keep his number one on the other side of it I think it's going to be good for him in the long run... I think it's going to help him become independent and he will need that so his school transition is easier too... Even this school is a ways a way still

[Thorz300]

Southern what a beautiful little boy, those pics are fabulous! I love his hair!

Fish I'm with everyone else, you are absolutely not over reacting, you shouldn't just dispose of the baby! Not many moms I know would be ok with that. I personally would want the choice of where to bury my child!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Omg every time I look at a calendar it freaks me out lol! 13 flipping days!
O I forgot to mention I had an u/s today he is a he and he measures 7.4 right now so it looms like he might be smaller than my last two I know th u/s is give or take a 1/2 pound but I have hope lol

[fish2012]

Thank you ladies, my friend had a silent miscarriage (baby died at 9wks but her body didn't realise) and they found out at the 12 wk scan and ended up taking baby home as hospital said the same...

On brighter note as acupuncture failed booked reflexology for Friday! Excited!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Lol I was just about to book some acupuncture but the price was holding me back... I don't want to pay hundreds for something that will happen regardless

[Salsa]

Fish I agree with everyone!! You are not over reacting and what a difficult thing you have to go through right now. I'm so sorry. You are such a brave and inspirational women I know you'll get through it x x x

Southern Julian is just delightful!! So precious!!! Just looking at these pics gets me so clucky and excited about my upcoming arrival!!

Here I have a couple of photos of a different nature. Our hay plant business burnt down last yr-it was tragic and devastating and at the time I couldn't see how we'd ever be able to re build what we had created over yrs of hard work
Anyway, I'm happy to say that we are now about a month or so off opening our brand new plant!! It's been so much hard work for my amazing husband! I had to show off a couple of pics-this has been built from scratch.... With surrounding land also ours with some new oats in the ground ImageUploadedByTapatalk1376524067.581595.jpg

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[fish2012]

Oh wag call around my acupuncture was £45 which is guess is only about $55?