Any blue swayers TTC in dec 2013

[Boysway]

Crazycatcouple, I hint to my dh almost daily Very rarely does anything happen out of it That's why I am stuck as the whether I should give dh an indication that ovulation is nearing. When we finally bd it was last Monday night while we were away with the kids. The kids room was at the end of the hall with a laundry and two ensuites separating us. Worst thing, I just realised. I should be ovulating from around the 3rd-6th of July. On those days I am nightshift two nights in a row then two afternoon shifts in a row

[Ewpnx1]

Hi Ladies!!!! its sunday and i tested today..i thing its BFP ) i got a faint positive on DPO 14 !! Crazy cat just saw your posts..and we think quiet same i just happened to wait from DPO10 to 14 for testing i said to myself will wait till sunday and was so excited today to see the faint line!! and came here to staright to update you guys..thanks for all your wishes guys and support..Boysway: i had been trying for 7-8 months off an on..i missed some months where we wete stressed or busy and its fine..but this time we were happy i ovulated on my DD birthday and we were happy partying for her.. and it was weekend so both were off and i ovulated same time..bingo!!!
as its not dark positive.. i will wait till i see GP. I will test every day till is dark and then see Doc..what do you guys recon?? I think due date would be first week of march which also happens to be my Hubby birthday on 1st march he is excited lol

[Boysway]

Awww, fantastic news. Sticky bfp wishes to you Congratulations.

[oncue]

Congrats ewpnx1! That's wonderful news! Keep us updated xo

[crazycatcouple]

Woo hoo! Congrats Ewpnx!!!! So excited for you :-) I have been taking more tests every 2 or 3 days just to watch the line get darker, lol. I would call your doc on Monday and see when they want to see you. Mine won't see us until 8 week, so July 22nd, but I think different docs have different ways to do it all.

And yes, I agree that for us it was so helpful that we were just relaxed and having fun, rather than "trying". Come join us over in the due date forum :-) There's not one yet for March I don't think, so I've been in Feb for now, but they may make a March one soon.

Boysway, keep thinking positively! You will get your BFP soon, I can just feel it. Do you and your hubby drink? Maybe try and have a bottle of wine to get more in the mood and loosen the reins a bit? Also, we found that morning spooning works well for DH since they are almost always ready to go in the AM, lol, so maybe your night shifts won't be too much of an issue if you shoot for first thing in the AM for him.

[Boysway]

Thanks crazycatcouple. Yes, things are more likely to happen in the morning. I guess we could give things a try when I come home from work in the morning. I don't think we'll have much choice about that.

[Ewpnx1]

thanks ladies yes will join due date forum when they start march one i guess..when do you tell family? hubby wants to keep it quiet.
boysway: wine helps..we had enough lol in fertlie time..holidays and reduced stress was the key for me..plus i stopped thinking of trying n just had fun thus tie..plus hubby had supps for a month due to low sperm count..and i think that helped heaps..
oncue are you trying?

[Boysway]

I planned on adding wine into my sway but when I'm not working I'm sleeping. So, I guess wine will be left out. Although I could have a glass Tuesday and Wednesday night. I'm nightshift on my first two fertile days which are Thursday and Friday.

[Ewpnx1]

i think if you just try for fun doesn't matter..i had 2-3 months in between where i could only try once due to hubby being busy with work..it stressed me more out..probably just dont try this month..you can have fun..if it happens this month its OK otherwise next month..for me actually it stressed me more out if BD was only once during ovulation time...good luck..after 7-8 months of trying i think i have found out the relaxed state of mind was most important for both of us..that's what worked this month..

[crazycatcouple]

Ewpnx1 - I think it depends on your personality for when to tell people. I am a talker and know that even if something happened, I'd want to talk about it, so I've been telling anyone that I would feel comfortable talking to about a loss, which basically includes all of my family and the friends I consider close :-) I haven't announced it on FB or anything like that yet - I'll probably wait until after 8 or 12 weeks, depending on when we get our first official scan. Some people wait longer to even tell family, but I just know I would need the support system if anything did happen. Plus, I'm trying to just stay positive and believe that everything will go as planned, so why not tell those I love :-)