TTC Girl - January 2012

[KraizyDaizy]

awww

the one with his head on your shoulder looks just like you too!

That would be my Ashton (in blue) and he is 10. Dathan 12 far left (in grey), Wyatt 5 (middle in green PJs) & Kuyler (in light blue PJs. My four sunshines!

[pinkin2011]

Mocha I see that second line !!!!!!!!!! OMG how exciting! I hope you are feeling ok at the moment.
Lemon like everyone else is saying Pee On A Stick you have to see it for yourself, seriously how wounderful and everyone is here for you!!

[amari]

Aurora, sorry. That would feel sucky. Have you always wanted 4? The time frame thing is interesting, maybe she is totally just bologna or off on the gender! She doesn't know the power of your sway! xoxo

[amari]

Mocha-like the prego feelings by the way!!

[pinkin2011]

Hey Katie i read your post about your mum, I have the opposite everyone keeps asking me and forcing me about having another one... Its been very hard for me We only have one child and he is my whole world The last 3 years i have been through so much with my family as in my mum dad bro and sister and ttc has been the last thing on my mind. Some people that have asked if i am ever going to have another start saying i have done the wrong thing there will be too much of a gap trying to make me feel guilty, I guess to i have been putting it off because i badly want a girl ( Which reasons why is a whole other story) and i really think i wont get one my d/h says to me if you keep saying you wont get a girl and thinking you wont get one then you wont. Gee he makes me feel better! Anyway your mum doesnt know you want another child does she?? Maybe she does think that you guys really dont want anymore??

[pinkin2011]

FAR OUT!! I need some advice please!! Last night at 10pm i took a opk it was not positive it was def lighter then control line but you couldnt miss it .. I have now taken one at 8am and it is nearly positive??? should i avoid taking an opk in the morning?? i heard that somewhere BUT i am not due to o until the 9th??? Can the vitex and saw palmetto make me o earlier? I am stressing out here!!! My Plan is no longer anymore if i am getting a positive opk now... I dont temp

[pinkin2011]

The opk is actually positive its the same colour as control line.. i have never seen d/h so excited hes like a little kid, but could it be positive because its am

[xokatietatie]

She knows I've always wanted four, but she just has to put her two cents in. I love her dearly, but I don't always feel emotional support from her. Of course, if I try to tell her how I feel I am this big bad wolf and she is so broken over it, and then we fight over it. I just want to know that if/when the days comes that I announce we're expecting that my mother will be happy for me... but instead I'll probably get lectured. If I admit we actively tried to get pregnant the lecture will be about money and how three kids is enough. If I shamefully lie and say it was a pleasant surprise, the lecture will be about how we should have been smarter and more careful. I can't win. We're 25 and 26 years old. We live in a nice house in a nice neighborhood. DH has a great job. My business is growing more and more successful with every passing day. We've got three wonderful boys who are growing into wonderful young men. Who cares if we have one more? We have the space. We have the money. We have the love. She'd say we don't have enough money though, and that four is so many, and blah blah blah. I just don't want to have to go through it with her, but it is what it is. Everyone thinks we're insane for wanting more, which is why we're not talking to anyone about it. If I didn't have all of you, I would probably go crazy.

[Mochagirl]

Yes, I think Vitex and SP can make you O earlier - that happened to me last summer. I think the only reason they don't recommend you use OPKs in the morning is that your LH levels will tend to be higher later in the day...but I don't think it would be possible to get a false positive just because you used FMU.

I think you should assume this is it and get ready to BD!!

[dannikins]

mocha, thats a bfp for sure, huge congrats!!!!

lemon, we all totally understand you feeling that way, but you need to POAS....lol..
taking a test is just the first step on the journey, and we are all here for any support, or ranting , or crying, or what ever you need.

i was totally blown away when i got my BFP.
i hadnt even had a chance to start my sway, so i feel like i failed before i even started.

its a wonderful support group here, which you already know....
so go and POAS and put all of us out of our misery....lol