TTC BLUE in October?

[3GMomPraying4Boy]

I'm using 1/2 tsp of organic maple syrup to sweeten mine because I think maple sugar sways boy.

[3GMomPraying4Boy]

I was having the same problem and was told that natural organic maple syrup sways boy but within limits as it does have ca in it. So I use 1/2 tsp or less in my oatmeal.

[3GMomPraying4Boy]

Somebody else said to sprinkle just a little cinnamon but I heard although it is alkaline it lowers blood sugar levels and testosterone and causes miscarriage in large amounts so I'm staying away from cinnamon right now.

[jmomof3girls]

yogi&booboo, I'm with Jana. Definitely a good thing you had plenty of attempts in the lead up to your +OPK. Cycles can throw you off. I have spotting and AF will be arriving tomorrow no doubt. This means I did indeed ovulate on CD 15 when I usually ovulate around CD 19-21. Hopefully this will be your gorgeous blue bundle.


I am back, lol. Such a long stay away, rofl. I am in a much better mindset now. Dh tried half a viagra tablet and it worked. There is now a light at the end of the tunnel and I have new found hope. I think everything in life, including TTC and Af coming really messed around with my hormones. I'm still going to see the psychologist though.

That is great news boysway. I'm smiling right now!

[jmomof3girls]

Do you ladies think its ok for me to add a little bit of brown sugar to my oats? They are so bland but I dont think were supposed to take in much sugar? Its about the only sugar I get in a day.

Maple syrup is good and stevia

[jmomof3girls]

Back to the weight lifting question... I workout 3-4 days a week. I do cardio and weights... i might cut down the cardio now that it's getting closer to my TTC month. My period starts Monday! So excited to finally start this BDing lol

Question, should I start preseed right after my period? Or wait until O week? I've never used any type of lube before... do I put it in right before BD or an hr before?

You can use a fingertip daily, the week of O and on your attempt or you can just use it on your attempt.

[jmomof3girls]

Yogi- I think it'll all work out the way it's supposed to. Maybe it was meant to be this way.

[yogi&booboo]

Thank you Janamomof3girls,
Im nervous and keep role playing in my head what I would tell the dh. Or should I even tell the dh? Would it be horrible of me to keep a secret like this? I don't want to say anything until af or bfp but even if a bfp i am worried he will be upset and I can just hear him telling me its abother girl. I think I would want to keep this fron the dh until i foubd out the gender in a situation like this so he wouldn't be putting me down and reminding me of the mistake I did. I am a hot mess right now 😢

[jmomof3girls]

That is a hard choice. I would just wait until a BFP to tell him for sure.

[jmomof3girls]

I've been lifting small weights here at home and walking my daughter to school and back with my heavy double stroller in this disgusting Sacramento heat!!! I hope that's good enough. LOL!