September 2013 babies!!

[fish2012]

Hi ladies

I don't know if any of you are still reading northerns blog but i contacted her and asked if she'd like flowers sent for Evelyn's funeral and they have a lovely simple family arrangement plan however her dh is running a really gruelling v long run and raising money for the a charity at their local hospital who support mums through difficult births like Evelyn's.

I'm going to donate in Evelyn's memory if any one would like details please pm me

Xx

[Thorz300]

Sorry ladies ive been MIA I've just been spending a lot of time with my mom and haven't been on the Internet at all! I have my scan on Thursday I'm super tired right now but will be on more often from now on. I hope all is well with everyone, I haven't had time to catch up yet.

[fish2012]

Hi Thorz glad you're okay, only 4 days

[Salsa]

How exciting mel and Thorz!

[Girlsway]

Spent 4 hours at emergency this morning with DS2 who helped himself to Miller Harris (perfume) this morning. I was with him when it happened but he was too quick. We were told he will be fine, he probably didn't drink too much of it. Now sitting in the hospital feeling guilty especially after DH comment that they will send social services on us, which I thought was a ridiculous comment. Surely these things must happen all the time.

[Salsa]

Oh girlsway, I'm so sorry to hear that!! You poor things. Poor little guy! I hope he feels better soon. I doubt social services will be notified. I'm sure they see all sorts of things in hospital! Hope you get home soon. x x x

[Wanting-a-girl]

They prob will send social services! It's ridiculous! When ds3 had his accident with his eye the dr called.... And then he told me that it wasn't an accident and I punched my 5 month old in the face! I was livid... However my social service worker was quite awesome and she was literally in my house for 5 seconds to see where he fell and then left... She talked to me a lot at the hospital and she talked to ds1 as well asking questions about me and DH

Funny thing is my friend has taken her daughter to the hospital for crazy things and has never been called on...

I find it ridiculous that they phone every chance they get cause I think that it will scare a lot of parents into getting proper care! I remember when I took ds3 to the hospital and I called my mom and she yelled at me cause they are gonna cal them on me... I ask what should I have done kept him home?! I was so mad at her... I guess she didnt understand how serious the injury was... Funny cause she is a social worker....

[Girlsway]

Thanks girls, little one is totallly fine, they said he chose more natural perfume to drink, but I have a feeling he didnt drink too much. And thats the problem, did we panic too quickly? I'd rather have these things checked than be sorry later. They said a Health visitor will come round, but did they just try to cover up the social service referal? I am furious as these things happen to many of us and they just make me feel like I am not good enough mum despite the fact I always tried so hard to do everything properly. There is bound to be another incident with 3 children at some point in the future and what will happen then?

[Wanting-a-girl]

It prob is a social worker... After we have babies here we have to bring the baby to the hospital for a check up the day after they come home and your told its a health check up but it's a social worker that you meet with hmmmmmmm ;( it makes me so mad!

[fish2012]

Oh girl sway poor you sure it'll be fine my friends son drank dishwasher liquid and there was no follow up at all which I kinda think is more preventable ;-? I'm sure it'll be fine hun just keep your cool and I'm sure they' ll see there's no issue hate to say it but if hospital picked up you worked full time they have made some super quick wrong assumptions ;-(

Thinking of you horrible stress xx