Any blue swayers TTC in dec 2013

[crazycatcouple]

Yeah, if it is more just in his head, then not telling him might be a good answer. However, if it is something physical, then it's possible there's an easy fix like a pill he can take :-) The pain in the leg thing would scare me a little though, so hopefully he's willing to go get checked out by a doctor soon, simply for overall heath and safety reasons!

I know it's easier said than done, but just try and stay positive. I had to practically tell myself I didn't care if it happened at all in order for it to happen. With so much stress put on ourselves, I think it can have an effect on our bodies more than we think.

Good luck Boysway!! Hoping you can get things with your DH sorted out soon and get back on track :-)

[Boysway]

Yes, the pain in the leg is a worry. He said it doesn't happen all the time though. We have had a couple of times where he hasn't had any ED problems. Oh, I have told hubby we will have a baby. He said, I'm not sure we will. I am determined though, it will happen when it's time. I'm not going to tell him when O is coming anymore. We don't bd much anyway and it's likely nothing will happen if I do tell him. I figure we might be in with more of a chance if I keep my mouth shut. I just hope these supps hurry up and turn up. He decided today he is going start making better choices and yes, he is still willing to go to the Drs It's a good start

Thank you

[Ewpnx1]

good luck Boysway! being positive is the key and yes trying to analyze issues and getting treatment promptly is important.
Crazycat do you have any symptoms?

[crazycatcouple]

Yes, they finally hit pretty hard this weekend... Nausea on and off all day, needing to take a nap in the afternoon, and tender breasts mostly. I also just get screwy in the tummy in general, beyond nausea, with gas and loose stools and not so fun stuff :-( This is the hardest part!! How about you?

[Ewpnx1]

i have similar symptoms like you..not feeling like to do anything and getting tired easily.finding hard to cook as the smell of food makes nausea worse..brushing even making me feel vomit. would like this first trimester to get over fast.

[Boysway]

I hope you feel better soon ladies. At least you have a good reason to feel off

Afm, I think I am doing alright. I have had 'signs' that could have very easily led me to throw in the towel for ttc our last baby. However I have remained positive. More vitamins purchased (almost ran out of some), more OPK's ordered, FF membership renewed as it was due to expire this month and GD coaching renewed. An expensive week for me I have decided not to tell dh when ovulation is coming up. We rarely bd anyway. If I tell him ovulation is near, it is highly likely we won't have any chance for an attempt. Still waiting on dh's supps though. Feeling a little ticked off. They were ordered from the states almost 4 weeks ago now Dh is also trying to eat better now (hallelujah, about time). I ordered him some X50 green tea. I really hope he likes it. It is supposed to help with weight loss. Fingers crossed because I think his weight might have a good deal to do with his issues.

[Boysway]

What are the odds. Dh's supps finally arrived, the same day my OPK'S arrived I also ordered him two more bottles last night.

[oncue]

Hi ladies! Sorry I've been MIA, I've been lurking around though haha! Just wanted to let you know that in the end we decided not to go down the HT road as it wasn't really affordable for us if it didn't happen first go. And we decided that we are actually fine with either gender, we just want our little party of 3 😊
Now though, I can let u know that we are pregnant! I am actually 12 weeks and we decided not to say anything until we had a scan to make sure heartbeat and growth was good. I had that done today and all is on track! My obstetrician recommended I do the Panorama test (as I will turn 35 before bub arrives) to chk for the trisomy's etc, and we decided to chk gender too. So we have about 2 weeks til we find out. Fingers crossed for a nice healthy bub.
I am so so pleased for u ewpnx1 and crazycat! So wonderful that u have gotten BFPs.
Boysway, I know how frustrating it can be, but it sounds like things are starting to turn around for u, with DH improving his diet and the supps etc arriving. Stay strong and try relax (easier said than done I know) it's def going to happen for u xox

[crazycatcouple]

Wow, congrats Oncue!! That's fantastic news :-) You are a strong woman to be able to keep quiet on this site, lol. I am ridiculous and tell pretty much everyone I meet even though I'm still terrified something is going to go wrong. I just can't help it! When is your due date then? I supposed sometime in Jan? How exciting to be past the scary first trimester already!! Did you have many symptoms/nausea/etc? I have seen you lurking in the due date forum, but thought maybe you were just spending time in there because you know some of the mommies and such. Funny that you had ulterior motives :-) I bet it feels so great to finally be able to share the news!! Please keep us posted on the Paranorma testing. It's so cool that that's available these days.

Boysway, so glad your DH's supps finally arrived!! It sounds like you're getting things on track...I have a good feeling about all this!! :-)

[oncue]

Thanks crazycat! Yes it was hard not to spill the beans haha but DH wanted to be sure so I just went with the flow. I have been so sick though, which is always hard when you have no one to tell, spewing up every afternoon, and feeling so tired!! I feel lucky that DD1 & DD2 are young as if they had a busy schedule I just cldnt help at all!! DD1 fancies herself as a bit of a 'mum' so she has been an extraordinary help! Even just getting her and her little sis snacks or cleaning up haha, gotta love that.
I'm due 26th January, but as I will have to have a Caesarian section prob a week before that!
Yes I'm nervous for the Panorana test, so weird to think that they can know so much from a blood sample! Xx