Frakkin' February 2WW

[Georgia_Peach]

I know, aughhh, my DH has been traveling extensively for work so our BD timing isn't great. He comes back tomorrow afternoon, so will BD tomorrow (CD20) for sure. Do you think that will be okay for timing even if I O on CD21? I know that shuttle's doesn't always work, but worried that BD so close to O will be more blue sperm.

Robin, you're in my dream scenario. I'm from a family of 4 kids (2 older kids, a 5 year break and then again my little sister and I). It works out so nicely and now that we are older, the ages don't matter at all. I WISH my husband would be onboard for that, but he's not at all. I know there's no shot of it. Just out of curiosity since you're in the same position age wise with your kids....if you knew your DH would not go for a 4th, would you still be okay with having the 3rd? I'm wondering if I should just leave good enough alone...

For me 100% yes bc I so badly wanted my little girl! I never felt complete. I still don't (hence why I want to meet my fourth baby) but I have come to peace with it being whatever gender. Obviously wed love another girl but I'd be over the moon for another snuggly baby boy as well. I just always wanted that sister bond for my daughter that I never had growing up.
I love having 3 kids! It's awesome. Honestly!!!

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[cosmosis]

I know, aughhh, my DH has been traveling extensively for work so our BD timing isn't great. He comes back tomorrow afternoon, so will BD tomorrow (CD20) for sure. Do you think that will be okay for timing even if I O on CD21? I know that shuttle's doesn't always work, but worried that BD so close to O will be more blue sperm.

Robin, you're in my dream scenario. I'm from a family of 4 kids (2 older kids, a 5 year break and then again my little sister and I). It works out so nicely and now that we are older, the ages don't matter at all. I WISH my husband would be onboard for that, but he's not at all. I know there's no shot of it. Just out of curiosity since you're in the same position age wise with your kids....if you knew your DH would not go for a 4th, would you still be okay with having the 3rd? I'm wondering if I should just leave good enough alone...

I would You never know what the future holds. If you want to get pregnant, just do it and stop doubting your decision. He may change his mind in the future and he may not. You may have a girl and you may not. You may have a singleton or twins.

The only part you can control is whether or not you want to get pregnant. The rest is not up to you!

[maximbella]

You guys are right! I honestly feel like it's the parents that can make a family dynamic what it is...so if you include or exclude the littlest one, they will be made to feel accordingly. My DH just wasn't really into trying for #3, and now that I've convinced him and it didn't happen last month, he's giving me the whole "if it was meant to be it would have happened" speech, which starts to give me doubts.

[Butterflies buttercups]

Just took a test bfn so I'm out for this month as suspected so I've just eaten loads and loads of chocolate to make myself feel better (or sick?!?!!) and back on it tommorow for when AF arrives I suspect
All systems go for month number 2 xx


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[cosmosis]

Just took a test bfn so I'm out for this month as suspected so I've just eaten loads and loads of chocolate to make myself feel better (or sick?!?!!) and back on it tommorow for when AF arrives I suspect
All systems go for month number 2 xx


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I'm sorry to hear You should still be in the Feb 2ww though right? How long are your cycles usually?

[cosmosis]

You guys are right! I honestly feel like it's the parents that can make a family dynamic what it is...so if you include or exclude the littlest one, they will be made to feel accordingly. My DH just wasn't really into trying for #3, and now that I've convinced him and it didn't happen last month, he's giving me the whole "if it was meant to be it would have happened" speech, which starts to give me doubts.

He can't give you that speech because there hasn't been real, heartfelt tries on his behalf. If he had given things his all for a year, perhaps he'd be entitled to give that kind of speech. That's what I think anyway.

[cosmosis]

Alright, I'm ready for a BD break lol. We had 4 attemps total for this suspected O. We break tomorrow and start EOD on Friday if there's no +OPK or other signs of O.

I have more comparison pics for those interested



These are all at 1:00PM and 15 still looks the darkest to me. Today's are all lighter.

These next ones vary in time. I usually take these at 7PM everyday, but if I see the cheapies get darker than usual, I take one of these also. See how the darkest ones are CD14 PM and CD15AM? I think it is very possible that my surg was overnight (this would be 3 times now). I do go pee every night so my urine was surely diluted by 5AM. Looks like I may have documented my surge on its way down.



We'll know for sure the next few days.

[Butterflies buttercups]

Yes well my attempts next month will again be e4d so starting from 10th Feb and carry on from there really hoping Feb is my month !


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[Burakoam]

Cosmo I think you are right about when your surge was and yes you documented the last of it. Your lines are crazy light it really throws me off lol.. I can confirm I had what felt like a fever the Saturday that I ovulated..my temp was 99.9 and peaked at 100 degrees. It was a strong O lol..I definitely was not sick and at her ultrasound she was a Saturday conceived baby so I am sure that's what it was. That means today is O day for you if it's when your temp jumps that you O, not after

[Burakoam]

Maxim I had DD3 because I NEEDED her.. I wanted her so bad with all my heart. Tried for a boy but a part of me knew she was a girl the moment she was conceived. Then when she was in my arms it all clicked and made sense. If we can give birth to our own soulmate, DD3 is that for me. I believe we have several and my husband is definitely my other half and completes me etc but so does my DD3. She was born to show me girls are not all that bad and make me glad to have daughters. Even though she will be left out of some things with her sisters she will always have you.