Part 10: Due December 2017, Jan Feb and March 2018

[LMSM]

Lola, missed your post as was typing mine
No wonder you are stressed – whenever you can, allow yourself a break, whether that be 5 minutes longer in the shower, or asking for help by hubs or anyone around to just catch a breather – you need it, so reach out!!!
I hope your kitty comes back soon, you’ve done nothing wrong, so hopefully it’s just a matter of time before you find him

[Pbn3]

Oh wow Lmsm!! Your days sound so full on!!! And I had to lol about your dh coming home and going straight to the loo (plus they get to go alone [emoji23][emoji23]) sounds like men are all the same for the most part [emoji23][emoji23]

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[Lolabelle]

Thanks Pbn & LMSM!! I fear that someone will find my kitty under a bush somewhere. I've repeatedly looked all over our yard and over the fence. He always stayed in our yard...I hope a wild animal didn't drag him away. A snake Pbn?! Oh that's just awful, so sorry!! Poor kitty!! LMSM-that's perfect advice, thanks...I need a breather! Sounds like you could use a breather too [emoji173]I know what you mean...sometimes I just feel like just letting all the chores go to see if it gets done haha. So anyway, to add to my stress, while the boys were supposed to be in their beds & I was getting their school lunches ready, DS2 took his dry pull-up off & put it in the toilet, took it out & I guess it started falling apart & he spread those gel beads all over the floor & stairs...it looked like snow. The last thing aI felt like doing tonight was dragging the vacuum up the stairs to clean it all up....

[Bluebooties]

O Ash its the same every where. DH and i work the sane job, sane hours, same stress yet he cimes home and gets to put his feet and me ? Well i have to chase around the kids getting them and the house organized for the next day. Its just not fair so I totally hear u on that ! Vent it out it helps !

Lola sorry to hear about ur cat. I pray its not as bad as you think and you find her b4 u move houses.

Pbn glad to hear ur appointment went well.

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[Mommy2apples]

Oh Lola you need a break! Hugs and hope you get one soon!


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[4blue2pink]

ash i get it!! i sometimes feel like dh is an extra child too!! things like ive cleaned up the kitchen at the end of the night and he makes himself more food.. thats fine, but why the hell cant he clear up and wash up his plates?? instead i come down to more washing up and clearing up in the morning when id left the kitchen all done the night before. also why cant he put his dirty clothes in the washing basket instead of just dumping them on the floor? he also comes in from work and expects everything done for him even though ive got the kids. i think its a man thing!! and it was 100X worse when he was working his previous job of 12 hour days-6 days a week

Lola i hope you find your cat

[4blue2pink]

oh and i went away for 2 nights for a wedding 2 years ago leaving dh with 5 kids.. lets just say the house was worse than i imagined when i walked back in the door :-/

[mommaxo3]

Ash - I feel your pain. DH works a swing shift and is home almost every 2 days so he is off 2 weekdays every week and every other fri, sat, sun (so there's every other week where he's off 3 weekdays). I work Mon-Fri. We got into an argument last week about him cleaning up and doing some dishes here and there a day or 2 when he's home and he agreed. But he didn't do it last week at all and he was off yesterday and I came home and went off. He then makes me feel like I have no right to be upset or exhausted after working all day and then coming home to do dishes, make dinner, do laundry, fold clothes, vacuum, shower the kids, put them to bed, take the garbage out and by the time I was done it was 9:30 and I still had to shower. When I finally sat down I realized I never asked the kids if they had homework...thankfully no one did but I'm so worn down and I keep saying it over and over and no one hears me or no one cares. He slept all day because he's been having issues with his back and it's been keeping him up at night but nearly all freakin day! I wont even lay on the couch because I know I'll fall asleep and I don't want to. I tell him all the time "I'll sleep when I'm dead." But I feel like I'm not allowed to mention my back hurts and I'm exhausted because of the tiny person I'm currently growing. I secretly wish I was high risk just so I can get a little help. Since my morning sickness went away no one seems to give a rat's ass that I'm pregnant anymore. I've been having sciatic pain in my leg and I'm getting nauseous towards late afternoon along with what I think is acid reflux because my chest and ribs burn after eating but I dare not mention it to anyone. I'm fine.

LMSM - Men say they want us to talk to them more about things that bother us or things we need but they don't really mean it.

Lola - I hope you find your cat. I'd be upset too. And I'd argue with the bank about the Chipotle but I'm a knit picker when it comes to stuff like that.

PBN - thats terrible for your cat! Poor thing. I had a cat run away about 3 years ago and never returned. I have no idea if he passed or someone took him in. I looked for him for months too.

I feel like men are still stuck in that mind set that mom stays home and cares for the house and kids and they go to work and pay the bills. I'd be fine with this, if I was a stay at home mom and not one that works full time. This drives me insane that I'm expected to be a full time housekeeper and work full time...you can't have both. End rant sorry that was long.

[AshFind]

LMSM ohh the bathroom breaks [emoji36] I've honestly thought of timing how long per day he is in there!
Lola I sure hope you find poor kitty.
Mommaxo3 [emoji119] preach it lady! I am considered high risk. My ob told me two visits ago to stop doing as much and don't even think of walking. I didn't even bother mentioning it to dh he would not even hear me I don't think. So on we go I set if I feel pain/bh but other than that I don't see how ob thinks I can take it easy being a sahm.


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[AshFind]

Ok so now on top of my rant. Ds3 who had preschool open house tonight was supposed to put on a program now has a fever [emoji21]. So with basketball practice after school and an all day feild trip tomorrow with ds2 I have to find time to make it to the dr before they close tomorrow.....


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