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[Cinss]

Hi girls. I have been mia as I didn't want to come on til after my scan. Well I had it yesterday at 12w 6d. Baby was non cooperative and was hiding under my hip bone. It wouldn't lay flat so I couldn't get a good view of the nub. The only thing the lady said to me is that she doesn't usually tell gender at this age, but it had a substantial protrusion between its legs. Well I could make anything of that! I'm trying to be as relaxed as I can. Dh told me he was really hoping to see a boy. I didn't think that it was such an issue, but he said he was happy to stop at 3, so he's hoping the effort we put in has done the trick. My next scan is not until April 8th. I'll be 21 weeks. I have a retroverted uterus so she wanted a later scan in order to see better. After 3 kids, this is the first time anyone has told me about my uterus.!
Hugs cinns and flava, your boy is beautiful

Oh its totally a boy, same thing happened at my 12 week scan, well he wasn't hiding but the tech was really sure the large protrusion between the legs was really really obviously a boy.

[ELP]

Flava!! He is absolutely gooorgeous!! Thats the thing with little boys, we just cannot help but spoil them rotten gtg but had to post xxxx

[Hobbermittens]

Flava, he is so cute! And getting so big already!

ELP, I'm sorry your DH has the gout.... I have had that too, and it hurts! And how are you feeling? WHen do you test?

Cinss, why are you having to sell your house? Are things any better with the situation with your DH? I hope things settle down before the baby comes.

[Cinss]

Cinss, why are you having to sell your house? Are things any better with the situation with your DH? I hope things settle down before the baby comes.

DP was involved in a crime So he has to appear in court in March and there is a chance he will go to jail, we have been told that sentencing wont happen then it will be adjourned so at least he will be with me for the birth of our son, but in the mean time we have to make arrangements so that i will be able to support myself if he goes away and the situation has become a bit nasty with the other people involved and even though we dont feel threatened badly right now, that can all change so to be on the safe side we dont want anyone to know where we live. I never saw this coming i would never have thought this would happen to us, it has really opened my eyes to how life can take you in a completely different direction just because of 1 mistake.

[ELP]

Hobber how are you!! and your chunky little man getting on?? I am feeling not pg but its probably too early to tell atm either way! I have 1 of the tests left which I picked Davey up early on. I dont eve know what dpo I am lol, maybe 9?? I might do it in a minute just to get it out of the way, then it will become a real waiting game!!

[ELP]

Cinss, things sound so stressful for you all When I was carrying dc1 my dh got in a fight an ended up through the courts, it kept being adjourned until he finally got a not guilty when she was about 3 months old, it just sits there at the back of your mind and the hormones dont helpI think if I hadnt of been pg at the time I would have been a bit more 'serves you right' with him instead of heart broken. Hopefully he'll get a not guilty aswell xxxx

[ELP]

Flava, its sad when we have that last b/f isn't it Daves the same, he would only sick my milk not formula which made me feel guilty, luckily with the food in his belly he can take my milk better now, DD5 just turned away from the boob at 3 months and would only take my milk from the bottle I think it was for the instant faster flow and she eats like a man now at 2!!!
The bee pollen for me is a daily burst of energy, its full of vitamins and minerals and gives me a mental and physical lift, its worth a try but you shouldnt take it if you have bee allergies and should be aware that there id a chance of developing an allergy.
And yes Dave is fully on his feet! He took his 1st steps at 8 months 3 weeks, not my earliest walker even lol, sorry proud mummy bit there. I'll add a little vid of him just after xmas, he was about 9 m 1w, please excuse the silly baby voice. He so scrawny he just looks likexa wlking head
Davey walking

[luvalittleman]

Flava, your little boy is beautiful! So very cute.
ELP, have wondered about continuing with the Bee Pollen after birth. Just wish I could take it now for energy...sigh...
OK, so I have a question for you mums of many. My boobs are massive! OK, they're not massive in terms of normal people but they are big for me. Like I have gone from a B cup to a D in the first trimester.
I have never had this happen with any of my previous pregnancies early. Later on when I'd put on 12 KG's and was ready to pop or my milk came in but even then, my largest bra was only a large C. And I haven't put on masses of weight. I've put on about 3 Kg's. But they are quite solid inside too, not just fat if that makes sense?
Did anyone have this happen with just one of their pregnancies? It seems very strange to happen on my 4th pregnancy. Anyone have any thoughts?

[Hobbermittens]

ELP, I can't see the video!!

Luv, my boobs are huge always, and they seem to be huger this time than ever before (I went up to an E!)

[Hobbermittens]

DP was involved in a crime So he has to appear in court in March and there is a chance he will go to jail, we have been told that sentencing wont happen then it will be adjourned so at least he will be with me for the birth of our son, but in the mean time we have to make arrangements so that i will be able to support myself if he goes away and the situation has become a bit nasty with the other people involved and even though we dont feel threatened badly right now, that can all change so to be on the safe side we dont want anyone to know where we live. I never saw this coming i would never have thought this would happen to us, it has really opened my eyes to how life can take you in a completely different direction just because of 1 mistake.

Oh Cinss, I am so sorry. I remember you saying something in another post about jail, but I didn't realize how serious the situation was. I wish you could enjoy your pregnancy and your baby without having to deal with this! How awful for you and your family. I think if moving to a new location will help keep everyone safe, then that is what you must do. Try to find a new house that you love, so you can build new memories there.