Part 8: Due December 2017, Jan, Feb and March 2018

[LMSM]

Baby is healthy..we'll have a tribe of three girlies.
Happy Bub is good but admittedly had to fight back tears...so disappointed, I was so sure this was my boy. No wa hubby would ever ever do HT and gender selection, and not even sure he will ever agree to a fourth. Just shattered.
I l ow I will love her but the thought of another girl just kills me..I know it's Terri Le terrible to say that, but I just don't think I can cope.

[Pbn3]

Oh LMSM I'm so sorry you are feeling so down xxoo big hugs and give youself a break, you only just found out, you will cope. Your thoughts and feelings will settle down in time to come. Let them be what they are for now. You're only human and entitled to feel this crushing disappointment. It will pass. Big hugs again xxoo treat yourself kindly today. Get takeout for dinner and take a nice long warm bath with a book or some candles.

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[LMSM]

Îm a terrible mum, I want her to Be someone different than what she is...when she was clearly meant to be. I know I will love her and it's selfish to be so greedy, when she is healthy. I know how many are desperate for a girl and I am /will be blessed with three healthy lively girls..I think the fact is more letting go of ever having a little boy that looks like my hubby that is hard. Why I even thought I could be so lucky to have a healthy Bub, fall pregnant quickly AnD my dreamed gender...how foolish.
For now I need to cry , it will get bette after but the thought of announcing gender and getting comments kills me already..
Take care ladies

[Pbn3]

You're not a terrible mum. You're grieving for a lost dream and that is all. Be kind to yourself and yes cry it out and keep talking xxoo

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[Skyblue]

Oh LMSM - Big hugs my dear. You are a wonderful mom who dreamt of having a boy and worked hard for it. It's ok to feel sad. Doesn't mean that you will love your little girl any less. You are grieving for a different reason and you are allowed to feel the way you are feeling. Isn't that the reason we all are here. Trying to make our dream come true. I m so so sorry that you didn't hear boy. My heart breaks for you. Its only natural to be sad. I must say all you ladies are so brave. I still don't feel ready to find out the gender. As if that's going to magically make the baby what I want to hear. You are a smart, brave and loving mom. Cry if you need to and then we will take one day at a time. We are here sweet. Pls share. We all are in this together and can't do it without each other. I wish I could come and give you a big hug.


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[XXforhubby]

Oh LMSM, (((Huge Hugs)))! This is the time to process your feelings! You're definitely not a terrible mom! Please don't try to force yourself to feel something before you're ready to! Give yourself the time you need, even if it takes all pregnancy. We are here for you!


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*hugs from someone who understands*


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[IWant4Kids]

Lmsm - so sorry you didn't hear boy. So glad she's healthy! Take your time to come to terms and you are not a bad mum xo love and hugs


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[maximbella]

LMSM, my dear so sorry!!!! Sending you lots of love. We are all here for you....


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[Mommy2apples]

You're not a terrible mum at all lmsm! I've been there had the gd bad with my fourth baby. It's crushing when you feel baby is one gender and then discover nope different gender. You are grieving the baby you dreamt up not one growing in your womb. You will be a good mum to her just as you are your other girls and the love and bond is always amazing for sure! Right now grieve and get it out and maybe once bub is here and you still want to try again maybe dh will want to as well by then. So many hugs!


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