swayers over 35 buddy group

**HopeandDreamG** · December 1st, 2011, 08:59 AM

Yuzu~ looks like you may have to hold him down!!
Sweetsister~ that seriously made me laugh picture an old lady surrounded by dolls!
You know its funny we have been Christmas shopping for our boys, and I started explaining to DH how badly I wanted to buy girl toys. I'd love to buy dolls, and beautiful clothes, oh I long for a TUTU!! DH looked at me and said this is the first time I really get why you want a daughter so bad. I think it finally registered because he LOVES all the boy toys and goes crazy buying everything.

Anyway, I am now 6 days passed O. My FF chart just gave me crosshairs. I O'd CD12 days earlier then the usual CD 16 or 17! Can't believe it, also O'd same days as positive OPK- that never happens. So, this also means I DTD day of O. I really don't believe that timing matters, but I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me a little. Its hard to move away from something you have always believed even when you now have evidence against your belief.

We went for Christmas pics (cards) of the boys last night. They came out gorgeous. It was hard to see all the little girls in their beautiful dresses. Made it a little harder knowing my due date was next month

. I think that has made this time of year harder for me because I know I would have been on cloud 9 knowing a baby girl was coming in January.

How is everyone?
Lemon~ you think maybe you are preggo? Would be great Christmas gift!! The blood sugar thing is how you get light headed and the room goes dark if you bend over and get up too quick- its clear your blood sugar is low!
Mocha~ Did you attempt how was it? Hope you feel good about it.
Amari~ hope you get through the am without breakfast as long as possible. Enjoy those diet cokes!

**indigoviolet** · December 1st, 2011, 10:12 AM

HopeandDreaming- that is so hard (((hugs))), I wish things could have been different for you. Hopefully you get pg with a sticky pink bean really soon hon.

**indigoviolet** · December 1st, 2011, 10:13 AM

Sweet sister- good luck. Looks like your boys are similar age to mine!

**sweetsister** · December 1st, 2011, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by indigoviolet

Sweet sister- good luck. Looks like your boys are similar age to mine!

Thanks! my boys are 2 yrs 7months and if this one happens will be 2 yrs and 3 months from my youngest boy!The oldest is still getting used to my youngest but they are starting to really become great friends!Not sure the youngest will like a baby though im a bit scared of that situation!
Good luck to you too!Lets make it 3rd 2012 together!!FX

**indigoviolet** · December 1st, 2011, 10:33 AM

Sweetsister- my boys are 4 1/2 years and 16 ish months, they don't play together yet but I'm sure they will as they love eachother so much. I'm sure life will get a lot easier when they can play (or maybe that's just wishful thinking!)
I would love to get a BFP in Dec and get a pink bundle in 2012, FX for us both!

**Mochagirl** · December 1st, 2011, 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by HopeandDreamG

Mocha~ Did you attempt how was it? Hope you feel good about it.

We did have our attempt 2 nights ago. I felt pretty good about it - I took Benedryl and Zyrtec, drank lots of CL, had dh release a couple hours before the attempt, and had used Rephresh about 24 hours before. However, I still haven't gotten my +OPK, and last night I started spotting again - mixed in with the EWCM. The spotting tapered off this morning, and now it's normal EWCM again, so I'll just keep taking OPKs until I get my +. We might dtd again tonight (after having him release first again) just to cover our bases as well.

**HopeandDreamG** · December 1st, 2011, 12:35 PM

Mocha~ Glad you feel good about it! You'll get your positive soon

.

Lemon~Thought you'd like to see this timing study, look at Figure 4
http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056...99512073332301

indigo~ Thanks for the hug!

**lemon2012** · December 1st, 2011, 09:33 PM

HI HOPE!
Trust me, I read it!
DH found it and had to point it out!
Of course, that is after a year of trying with a cut off.....I was mad!

Everyone, considering it is December 1st and all we have been through (some of us definitely more than others...mocha and hope) I just want to send out soem sappy BFP pink vibes and tons of hugs to everyone!
I really want to enjoy this Christmas with my two special boys and relax. I wish I could give up on my dreams of a girl and love what I have....so, here is to trying to enjoy what we do have while we wait for what will truly complete us to utter happiness!

Thanks for all the support everyone!

9 dpo! ugh!

**lemon2012** · December 1st, 2011, 09:36 PM

Please note:
sorry about typos

I LOVE MY BOYS!!!!!!!!!!
I just don't want anyone thinking I will never be happy without a girl, but right now, I wonder how to fill this void and desire.
Maybe over time......but just thought I would mention it.

PS: mocha....don't miss this month!!!! Just in case considering your body is out of whack

Sweet sister: I actually asked DS 1 if I bought a doll and stroller if he would play with it....apparently they play babies at daycare and I miss it! He wants to buy me Barbie Christmas...omg, so sweet! And a new TV for DH! hahhah!

**Mochagirl** · December 1st, 2011, 09:44 PM

lemon - I love some sappiness! I honestly don't know if I could have gotten through this year without this site and all the amazing women I've met here. May 2012 bring us all happiness - either by us getting our desired gender or by somehow allowing us to find peace and happiness with what we have.

Lemon - we had an attempt two nights ago and are planning another one for tonight. I still haven't gotten a +OPK, but the line was much darker today so I'm hopeful I'll get a + tomorrow or the next day.

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