TTC Blue Crew Grads

**Pearl327** · March 27th, 2013, 05:22 AM

Oh mini I know how you feel with the pressure that other family members but on us. I had the pressure of DH really wanting a son but telling me that he was happy as long as the baby was healthy. I had my 5 sisters and 6 sisters in law all telling me that they really want me to have a boy, but could not see me being the mother of a son so according to them I was most likely going to have another girl. ( I haven't told my family yet. They know that I know but I told them that they have to wait and see) And a friend of mine who also has a DD has also been trying to convince me that I am having a daughter, but she acts very competitive with me for some reason so I think she has another agenda.

So going through the first half of the pregnancy with everyone close to me saying that there is no way I could have a boy, had me acting my heart out that I would be really ok with whoever comes into the family and the more it went on the more angry I became with people acting like a girl was the 2nd prize as I love and want my unborn baby regardless of gender . And I know that would have had a while of gender dissapointment where I would have to mourn the loss of a DS that never was but that would be seperate to the feelings I would have had for a DD2. (I went through this with DD as I was totally convinced from the moment of conception that she was a boy and it took the 3rd ultrasound confirmation of a girl to have me believe it)

Fingers crossed that you will hear boy on the 8th but a healthy baby girl is by no means the runner up prize either.

**Pearl327** · March 27th, 2013, 07:45 AM

Cinss. How are you doing at the min. I know you had a tough time coming up in march and fingers crossed everything worked out ok.
Hope your little man has turned for you too.

**Flava** · March 27th, 2013, 08:14 AM

mini- I have 4DD and my 4th is just awesome. Not to mention she is the only one who look like me have blue eyes like me . It's just something special about seeing a mini me walking around lol Anyway I love my girls a lot and you will love the new baby too no matter the gender.
And you know don't you think your MIL will be different if the baby is a boy. At least mine is not. SIL got 2 kids (boys) and only her kids matters . I know she wanted a girl so for me to have a boy and on my BD of all days is just killing them.
They never even said congrats to me when I had my boy or even send a postcard or anything at all for him.(not that I got anything from anyone else but still ) Not to this day! They are far away so only saw pics from the baby. But now we don't even post pics fro them. why should I?
Well I suppose living so far away from each other is good.
Hope it will be different for you!

**ELP** · March 29th, 2013, 04:48 AM

Mini, I re-looked at your nub shots and I have a real good feeling that you have a little man in there

If it does turn out to be a little girl, then exactly as everyone else has says, she will be an absolutely perfect little addition to your family xxx

**Cinss** · March 29th, 2013, 05:08 AM

Originally Posted by Pearl327

Cinss. How are you doing at the min. I know you had a tough time coming up in march and fingers crossed everything worked out ok.
Hope your little man has turned for you too.

Hey Pearl well things are ok at the moment luckily our court system drags out for ages, so it looks like DP will be with me for the birth which i am really relieved about. I have a scan when i am 35 weeks so i will be able to see if bub has turned. Thanks for asking

**ELP** · March 29th, 2013, 05:43 AM

This is good news Cinss! I reckon he'll be head down for you

**Flava** · March 31st, 2013, 08:00 AM

**Flava** · March 31st, 2013, 08:01 AM

ELP- I see your ticker we need BD pics from baby David now!!!

**minimatron** · April 1st, 2013, 04:07 PM

Hey girls, happy Easter. We have been up bush over the long weekend. I love taking ur girls away and relaxing and getting dirty. Its also distracted me from my countdown! It was dd1 bithday yesterday...April 1st. She turned 6. Only 6 days til my scan. I keep dreaming I can't see gender clues. Aahhh

**dloui128** · April 1st, 2013, 04:38 PM

Originally Posted by minimatron

Hey girls, happy Easter. We have been up bush over the long weekend. I love taking ur girls away and relaxing and getting dirty. Its also distracted me from my countdown! It was dd1 bithday yesterday...April 1st. She turned 6. Only 6 days til my scan. I keep dreaming I can't see gender clues. Aahhh

oh 6 days can't wait to find out

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