nub experts!!!!!...PLEASE!!!!...THANK YOU HEAPS GIRLS!!!YOUR ALL SO FAB!!!!:D GOD BLESS!!!!

[nuthinbutpink]

Not annoyed. Just trying to help you keep perspective and realize you are blessed. I do hope you get a girl like you want. Sisters are great. Good luck!

[toomanyboys]

thank you all girls...i needed A GOOD TALKING TOO....seriously......i am trying nt to think about it now...my friend is telling me to get the nt done as i will otherwise drive myself crazy waiting until 20 weeks.....! so i may ust do that then will share the scan with all of you....your are a bunch of super lovely ladies....thansk so much for understanding.......really appreciate all your support.......hope i do the same to for others.....

[deaks66]

GD is a horrible thing and i think once you have been through it once (which you obviously did with ds3), it is a really scary thing to face going through again. But everything will be ok. Bubs may turn out to be a girl and if it doesn't, you will end up loving him just like you ended up loving ds3. I had gd with both ds2 and the one i am carrying and although it was horrific initially i am now so excited to be meeting ds3.... and i don't have even one dd! Will keep a look out for your next scan. GL!

[atomic sagebrush]

It's too early to tell. Honestly, with the crazy nubs I've been seeing lately I won't even guess before 13 weeks any more.

[atomic sagebrush]

this is even more worrying....

WHY??? Why is it worrying? Just because you can't tell yet? Stay calm, you have every chance at another girl!

PS - I had my worst morning sickness with my first baby when I was only 20 years old and he was a boy.

[NeedAGirl!]

Really, it is too early. Honestly. I can tell you though that I had my NT scan at 11 wks. I got 2 pics, 1 looked boy and 1 looked girl. It was driving me NUTS!! so I can completely relate. I actually felt more depressed than if I just knew it was a boy. That is why I did the 13wk 3d scan even though I already had my 16 wk scheduled. It seemed that from what I saw on here, at 13.5 wks boys are pretty obvious. Not always but usually they are with a nice clear picture. Because I paid for this scan, she took her time and got some great nub shots for me. I will find out in one week - cringe!! - if it is a girl but at least for the last 2.5 weeks I have been feeling really hopeful and actually happy. I feel like I will even be more ok with a boy now than I am not feeling so depressed. It was totally worth the $60 even if I don't hear what I want to hear next week.

[toomanyboys]

Really, it is too early. Honestly. I can tell you though that I had my NT scan at 11 wks. I got 2 pics, 1 looked boy and 1 looked girl. It was driving me NUTS!! so I can completely relate. I actually felt more depressed than if I just knew it was a boy. That is why I did the 13wk 3d scan even though I already had my 16 wk scheduled. It seemed that from what I saw on here, at 13.5 wks boys are pretty obvious. Not always but usually they are with a nice clear picture. Because I paid for this scan, she took her time and got some great nub shots for me. I will find out in one week - cringe!! - if it is a girl but at least for the last 2.5 weeks I have been feeling really hopeful and actually happy. I feel like I will even be more ok with a boy now than I am not feeling so depressed. It was totally worth the $60 even if I don't hear what I want to hear next week.

see i am going to be like you then.....i am 50/50 of getting the nt scan but it seems to me like unless i drive myself crazy and all the the ladies in the forums too....lol....i think i better get that nt scan and at least get some kind of closure.....eaither way life has to go on and i have to still love and settle for what i am blessed with.....i will have a great story to tell all my numerous grnadaughtrs how i wished my dd and i myself had lots of them...lol....oh well.....nevertheless hubby is going to have to be told this sunday.....YIKES.....i blew up the scan pic with the 'flat' nub as it is the nices and clearest of the baby and will present it in a card...i think whatever i find out eventually is easier handled with him knowing too....and then next week i wll book for my nt scan for around 12w+..to get the best possible results and maybe the best possible clearer pictures of the nub...ARGGGGHHHH

[Cinss]

Boy or girl it was obviously ment to be part of your family, goodluck i hope its a girl.

[fivebabies]

Don't forget that even "perfect" boy or girl nub shot can be wrong! Don't torture yourself Hun. GL!

[toomanyboys]

aww...girls well i try not to but i am going to be honest with you..the last days have been rough....i go from being totally indifferent (or trying to) to total despair....i got up 5 today a i had dreams about my scan and it was boy then girl then boy and how i didn't want to see any boy nubs...it was a bit bizarre really.....i don't know....then i am thinking i do not want to get the NT done now because i liked the idea of not knowing and still hoping...but what if my NT will be plain as day? i don't know GD pretty bad at the moment.....i really have no idea how to accept this baby if it is a boy.....and i don't mean physically but emotionally...i cannot describe it obviously i love him/her to bits...but i am so convinced this was a girl.....to be thrown off like this is really taking its toll on my emotions...and ys i know noting is confirmed yet and i am trying to stay positive...but it is something i cannot control but am trying really hard to deal with the GD as it is overwhelming me at times....for one i have not a tiny clue what to name him....if it is a him.....i had all these plans for a girl.....i don't know.....can only pray god gives me strength to deal with this and i am sure i will....but for now it is extremely hard......