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    Quote Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius View Post
    May be true in some cases but not always, cause we have 2 girls & my husband really doesn't care what our third is, he even tried talking me out of swaying, he believes what we get given is whats meant to be, I wish I felt that way. Im the one who really, really wants a boy.
    I wish I felt that way also.
    2003 2006 May 2010 (My VBA2C baby)

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    Quote Originally Posted by TexasMommy View Post
    A friend of mine has 2 little girls & #3 was a baby boy..she had him last year after I had my second DD. I also have a different friend that has 2 DD's, & is pregnant with baby #3, she got told at 12 weeks that the baby was a boy, needless to say she was thrilled, then at 16 weeks again was told a baby boy, at 20 weeks told they couldnt see boy parts from above anymore....at 24wks (this past monday) she was told they made a mistake, & she isnt having a DS, she's having DD #3. Shes pretty upset, not so much because its a girl, because shes wanted a boy for so long & she feels like she had one for a short while & had him taken away.
    i would hate for that to happen,poor thing i really hope i get a boy next, ive wanted boys from the start and when i had my 1st i remember seeing a slight look of disapointment from my hubby as he too wanted boys, i think its much harder when you both feel this way.i feel low on myself for not having a son

  3. #23
    Quote Originally Posted by NYFamilyOfFiveRoses View Post
    She even told me that the cheap side of her wishes a girl so she can use the stuff that she has
    You know, I quite often caught myself thinking the same thing How my life would be sort of less complicated if I had a girl again. I do love having girls and thy could use same room and I already have tons of beautiful girly baby stuff.

    On the other hand , I wouldn't even try for #3 if I knew for sure it would be again...Contradicting and complicated and I'm often not sure what I do want and how much I'm determined by my upbringing, social expectations, cultural things etc.

    I probably should seek professional help
    m/c 2001
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    2012 failed sway
    2014 my surprise baby

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