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    Thanks Atomic, feel much more confident going with the positive opk... Is 14 days abstinence ok for DH? I'm having a hard time controlling him already :/ but I'm determined and he "partially" is... My only scare would be him having a wet dream.... Yes he IS that bad! High libido which why I'm certain AB is good for us.... Should i still take Zyrtec an hour before bd? And should I jump and dump or lay with hips propped for a while? Was thinking hips propped due to me reducing sperm count so much already?
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    I found the jelly bean essay... Such an excellent way of describing it! Thanks so much

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    The positive OPK plan is better for many reasons so I'm glad you're open to that.

    14 days abstinence is more than is needed. Go with 7-10 days instead esp. if wet dreams are a concern. If it does happen, then have him release 2x a day for 2 days and then switch to straight FR at that point or use the hurry up FR as a rescue if you're nearer to your attempt.

    Zyrtec should be taken 6 hours before because it takes time to get going. You can take it for anywhere from 1-5 day(s) before attempt and/or just save it for day of attempt.

    Up to you on J and D - you could also do a compromised J and D after 5 minutes, which is usually what I recommend with abstain + 1 attempt.
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    Thanks Atomic, so now AB will be 9 days, is that ok? And I tested his ph this morning and its between 7 & 8 more closer to 7.. So would you recommend maybe staying away from Zyrtec completely? Or use it? If I do use it, it will be 6 hours before on attempt day only... Will this be ok considering the 9 days AB?
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    I honestly don't know what is best. I'm sorry, wish I did.
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    At the moment I don't even have enough to test PH! I have never been this dry after AF! I guess that's my answer!
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