Thank you so much ladies, I haven't checked this thread in a few weeks, in an attempt to steer myself away from wallowing, but I really appreciate all your comments. We now have a thread in the dec/jan/feb 2014 due date board for opposites, and I'm hoping it'll really help me and others in the same situation to find the positives in our all-boy lives. I'm trying to "fake it till I make it" too, hoping if I keep telling myself this is for the best and reframing how I see boys and what I think the rest of the world thinks about having boys, eventually I'll realise it's all true. Who knows if it'll work or how long it'll take, but I'm hoping it'll be soon that I am able to forget about what others have and focus on my own blessings. DS3-to-be has started moving now, which helps a lot. I love that feeling, it makes him more real.

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