JUNE 2WW

[girliedreamz]

Sis-in-law has 2 kids from a previous marriage, boy and girl. Her daughter is a doll, and the younger of the two, so I can see why she wants sister for her to play with. She means well... but I still may strangle her. Or just push her in the lake. ;P

[SamS_TTCPink]

I so know how you feel stephk!! I had EWCM yesterday??!!? And some mild cramping and positive opk's still?!!? I have no idea what's going on and I'm fed up too. I'm constantly fighting with DH at the moment too as he is working crazy long hours and I have to go out at 11pm to pick him up for him to then come home and sit on the computer!! 😠 I'm so sure we are out this month as we only had one successful attempt a week ago (at first pos opk) and now maybe I haven't ovulated til yesterday?! It's driving me crazy.

[SamS_TTCPink]

Hmmmm....have mild cramps again today and creamy CM??

[stephk]

mum I think I need to come over there and give your DH a slap lol. I think you are in with a shot because at least you did BD at the first positive OPK. It is weird that you had a positive OPK again yesterday though - dont some people get these a week after O because there is a surge of estrogen or something like that?

girliedreamz - in the lake....in the lake

My temp this morning is definitely conclusive and actually this is what happened when I conceived DS, I had a positive OPK on the monday and then a conclusive temp rise on the friday. This time it was a positive OPK on friday and temp rise today. I think a coverline could be drawn that puts the first temp rise on saturday though (i would have to discount monday which is 0.03 lower than one of the earlier temps), they have just gone even higher today. I dont know, I only temped that one month I conceived DS so I really have nothing to compare this to. The point is i can finally say I have ovulated and can hopefully find out what is going on with the LP so I can go to the doctor when AF shows her ugly face. Really wanted to avoid this temping business but I guess its essential!

[essnce629]

Mumofsix-- I think you still have a good chance. I often get ewcm for up to a week before O and sometimes afterwards as well. When I got pregnant with DS2 I had NO ewcm before O and only had it for two days afterwards but still managed to get pregnant on accident! I also had yellow cm during my TWW.

[SamS_TTCPink]

He needs more than a slap lately!! And he has been staying back with just him and one girl he works with and wondered why and got so angry when I "sighed" about it, when he almost left me for a girl he worked with once before. I'm sure nothing's going on but I don't have to like that it's just them two together.

And I've been cooking dinner for him and he comes home and doesn't eat it, says he isn't hungry but hasn't eaten at work (from a guy who thinks his throat is cut if he goes 2 hrs without food!). And he is doing NOTHING at home!!! Driving me batty. 😠 I may as well be a single mum at the moment. He also said the other day that he wishes I would hurry up and 'get pregnant properly' (because the m/c wasn't properly??!) but he isn't helping that happen either! Grrr! He says these work hours are going to be like this til after the end of July! I don't know if our marriage will last that long! 😜

We were also planning on going away for a week in July but apparently we aren't doing that now because of his work! I was looking forward to a week away even though it was going to be with his parents who hate me and don't like kids. At least there would be a beach to walk along.

My opk's didn't really change to negative until today. I had one negative 2 days ago but all the others have been positive??! I've always only had about 24hrs of positives before so no idea what's going on. So frustrating. I stupidly did a HPT today too, dumb I know, and of course it was negative.

[SamS_TTCPink]

I've never taken temps before but if DH agrees to keep trying, I think I'll start next month. Is it just first morning temp you take?

[SamS_TTCPink]

Sorry, shouldn't vent here but DH is making me so cross! He missed DS5s climbathon and family lunch at preschool today after saying he would try to go, then I email him with some photos from the day and he says he will call DS5 this afternoon, but nope, no call! And now, after 9pm he calls and asks if he is still awake....Ahhh no!! I couldn't call him at all as he is "too busy" and when I try he doesn't answer so I couldn't even get DS5 to call him, but he now hasn't spoken to him all day after such an exciting day at preschool! I'm so angry! How to disappoint a 4yr old 101!

Starting to think not getting pg was all for a reason as I'm not sure another child to DH would even be a good idea right now. 😞 Sorry for being a downer! As you were. 😊

[stephk]

oh mum I am so sorry and please feel free to vent here about anything. He is acting like such a d1ck, does he have no sensitivity for the fact that he almost left with a work bimbo so shouldnt be working late with one girl if he can help it? What does he do for work if you dont mind me asking? Maybe there is a big stressful period coming up and he is taking it out on you (not excusing it but it could be this? Me and DH can be a bit like this) And your poor DS, he must have felt disappointed and then you have to deal with it. Hope he wakes up to what he is doing.

Re temping, you need a BBT thermometer, I use a digital one, you can get one pretty cheap in a local chemist or order online if you dont want to go to a chemist. You need to leave it on your bedside table so that the moment you wake up, dont move too far, dont get up, dont speak to anyone, just reach for the thermometer and take your temp. I downloaded an app to my phone so just input that each day. You need to take it at the exact same time each day but I dont get up at 515 at the weekend when I can help it so I take my temp and then use a temperature adjuster on WhenMyBaby - Pregnancy Test Calculator, Pregnancy Due Date Calendar - alcohol can raise temps and also if you dont get 4-5 hours sleep in a row before taking your temp this can also affect it. But as long as you are aware of this you can disregard the odd questionable temp.

Just had my third session of fertility acupuncture so I am hoping that lengthens my LP this month!

Naughty food day again today I just cant be bothered to stick to the limits today and not eating particularly healthy, pastries, pasta, garlic breads etc. Im going to relax and then get back to it on monday, I need a break from caring about being on 30% fat and 60g protein! I dont know how others manage to do 20% fat and 40-50g protein it would kill me!

[angielorna]

I'm sorry your H is being such a jerk, Mumofsix. I'd be having it out with him, his behaviour is unacceptable on so many levels. Hugs to you.
Angie