Swaying pink, having twins, thoughts?

[maidentomother]

Bluebonnet, I'll be SHOCKED if you don't have at least one girl in there. Fx so very hard for you.

[1+2+3boys]

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I almost forgot that I said that I would post a pic. Here they are sleeping. They are very twinly. 2 1/2 and already have a best friend.
I think my GD would have been worse if they had been fraternal due to losing two chances for the one girl I hoped for but now it wouldn't matter so much I would think. Twins can be close no matter what combo they are. I mean, how many of us have a same age playmate there for us all the time since birth?

[1+2+3boys]

IMG_8638.JPG And with Daddy. Matteo (twin 1) in the red and Elliot (twin 2) in the navy blue. I often put them in similar colours to help people know who 'the red twin' is etc. Now I just dress them however because I feel like their personalities show enough to tell them apart. It is amazing how different they are and they surprise me every day with their wonderfulness. I hope you twin Mums to be have a girl in there but if not, you will adjust at the loss of her when your precious boys come along xo

[1+2+3boys]

Sigh, sometimes I feel bad. I wish DS1 and my twins could be 'good enough', I feel so guilty. Life would be alot easier if I could move on from having more kids as my hands are full enough. I wish I could stop feeling like a daughter is so important but I want one so much as well (I am being greedy!) I bet people look at me and wish they could have had twins like I look at girls and wish for just one. I really would love to try giving it a shot as three kids is a great number for me and they are so great together. I feel like it could be achievable but I am too stubborn and want what I want

[covered in blue]

They are so cute!

[XXforhubby]

How adorable! You are one lucky mama!

Atomic said it best, "the heart wants what the heart wants". Don't feel bad for your hearts desire! Embrace it and see what comes up for you. If you find it is truly what you want, then go for it. Don't deny your desire, because you "should". You'll know. I wish you the best!


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[1+2+3boys]

You are so right XX for hubby. It is my life and if I have a dream then I deserve to at least pursue it. We only have one life so why not make it the happiest it can be? I get sick of people on moral high horses trying to tell you what you should do and what to be greatful for etc

[bluebonnet22]

Thanks for sharing the beautiful pictures 1+2+3 . Your boys are so precious! I often feel guilty about caring about the gender of the twins (if I'm lucky enough to deliver 2 healthy babies, isn't that special and wonderful enough?!), so I completely understand where you are coming from. I've warned DH many times that if it's 2 boys I would like a 4th baby. It's not so much that I *need* to have a daughter, I just *need* to feel like I've tried everything that's feasible for my family. If HT is going to be an option for your family, I think you are making the best choice possible for pursuing it. We all deserve to at least try to get what we want - I don't think that makes us monsters.

I have enjoyed naming my 2 (probable) boys. DH and I each got to pick the boy name we want with no arguing I have also enjoyed shopping for them. I gravitate towards dressing them in the same style but different colors (as you posted above 1+2+3) so I've already bought them a couple outfits like that. Nine more days until the anxiety goes away and I can just focus on the GD/excitement !

[atomic sagebrush]

You're killing me here LOL!!! Too cute!

[And Solomon Makes Six]

I have 5 Daughters and 1 son. Id love twin boys and I understand why you want a daughter