Some support, please...

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes exactly - I almost deleted that response before I posted but yes there are many all-girl moms that are Marthas and did get girls via diet, exercise, etc!

My intention is not to make girl or boy moms feel self-conscious or defensive about any behavior patterns they may or may not have, or that I am calling anyone out in any way, it is just something I have noticed with a segment of the blue swayers that I really haven't seen as much with the pink swayers.

[belleboi]

You're invaluable. I honestly love reading your observations here, because they really are true IRL. I think about my all boy mom friends and all girl mom friends and, for the most part, you are totally spot on. No hurt feelings here, I'm sure it's very Martha of me to even say anything in the first place. I literally LOL right after I sent that response to you, because of course I would HAVE TO say something.

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm glad you did because I was able to clarify further than I had to begin with, which is always very helpful. People are all very unique individuals, I'm just looking for any trend that pops out at me not because I want to put them into categories but just because I want to know how this bizness works!