13+0 weeks pink or blue?!

[happy1981]

It's a boy [emoji22]

[Claire33]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl

Let it sink in, give yourself some time to cry and mourn the dream. I myself needed 3 or 4 days to get out of the deepest hole I was in when I heard DS3 (DS2 I was ok with, thinking I had another shot at a girl next time). It took me another few weeks to some to terms with it even more. When he was born I was fine and loved him from the first second I saw him.

When it comes to the outside world, my advice is fake it til you make it. Put on the biggest of smiles and say "It's another boy, exactly what we predicted!". Don't give people room to make stupid comments that make your GD worse.

Last of all, congratulations on your little man! I know from experience what a blessing it is to have little boys, they will a best friend to grow up with and hopefully a best friend for life (even when they argue and you think there is no hope, they still love each other to bits!)

Be kind to yourself!

[Dana-Alicia]

Sorry you didn't hear girl. But I promise you, as soon as they put him on your chest after he is born, the hope for him being a girl will all melt away. I was so down when I was pregnant, but it was gone when they were born. And when I look at them now, I'm happy they are who they are. You can try for a girl later maybe? Be kind to yourself, go shopping and get some cute boy clothes or toys. I promise it'll get easier xx

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry it didn't go your way, happy.

[Mulberry Smurf]

Sorry you didnt hear pink today, I have two boys and my heart still aches for a girl but seeing your sons together heals some of the hurt you're feeling now. As others have said let yourself 'mourn' the loss of your dreamed for baby girl. But enjoy planning your life with two boys, I love calling them 'my boys' now, it feels right like it was always meant to be. One thing someone said that helped me through was saying that there are far worse things people hear at the detailed scan than gender, it made me thankful for my baby boy xx

[foxymrsg]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, but your ds2 will light up all of your lives, congratulations

[kitkat18]

Sorry happy, I'm sure your little guy will light up your life X