Help on when is best to BD using fertility monitor

[HealthyGirl]

So I asked him how long he's abstained he said a long time.
Not sure if he has released on his own in the 3 weeks and I know if I ask him he will roll his eyes and get upset with me.

So I got a smiley face on my clear blue digital today ( not monitor) and my monitor showed a high day today.
Should I bd once protected tonight assuming me we will do the actual DTD unprotected tomorrow night??
I know I can't ask him to release. He won't appreciate it. My husband can be weird when it comes to this kind of stuff.
Sorry if this is TMI.



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[True Blue]

I think that sounds like a good idea HealthyGirl

[True Blue]

There is no TMI here we are all looking for the same help/advice.

[atomic sagebrush]

It is up to you, in my opinion it will lower odds of conception without gaining you much in the way of healthy sperm tho because with abstain it suppresses production by quite a bit and may harm the sperm that are in formation. So just one release doesn't really get you a whole lot.

[atomic sagebrush]

There is no TMI here we are all looking for the same help/advice.

This is a TMI-Free zone.

[HealthyGirl]

So glad I listened to you guys.

My CB monitor only gave me 2 High days and I finally got my first peak this morning.
I went based on my wondfo opk ( line was darker than control) and I got a smiley on the clearblue test.
So we bd on the last high day ( very close to first peak day).
I am 100% sure Timing was excellent. I just have doubts now since don't know if DH has released on his own or not and how long he's abstained.

Atomic if he's abstained for a while does it lower conception by a lot? What does it exactly do to the sperm?
I just don't see how he's abstained for 2-3 weeks. Never thought men could go that long without releasing.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I have a full explanation here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...frequency.html