Timing question

[signingmommyfor3]

It does sound a little unethical. You don't want to jeopardize your 1 attempt, just make sure you have some good EWCM so those swimmer stick. We are trying again immediately since dr said it was okay and he expected us to be pregnant again soon. Only problem is that I hoped to O the end of this month/early Feb but ended up in the hospital today and staying overnight with a 103.2 fever and severe pain resulting from infection after the D&C. They checked and I am all clear just the oral antibiotics are not doing the trick so got me on IV antibiotics and pain meds. This will prob push O back. Surprisingly DH told me that he promised we would have 1 more baby and he is not going to go back on that (took him 4 years but he accepted it and was so excited and ready). We also told the boys today and two older ones were pretty upset and the younger one was okay being he had a vanishing twin and understood it happens.

[1moregirl]

Oh no SigningMommy - that's noo good. Hope the IV antibiotics work quickly so you can get well and get home to DH and your boys. I was in hospital for 2 nights and hated being away from my kids. It was probably due to hormones as well I think as when losing a baby you just want extra cuddles with the precious children you already have. Yep - I found the worst part was breaking the news to the kids. Horrible. Our little girl, 5, took it the hardest as she really had her heart set on a baby sister. Plus our 3 yr old kept pointing to my tummy and saying "no baby any more?" For weeks after which would just bring me to tears every time. Anyway, I hope you heal well Hun and will be praying like mad that your next baby sticks. Xx

[signingmommyfor3]

Thank you! I agree definitely is hard for me to be away from my family and when they came to visit I cuddled with all of them. Hard for DH too because he wants to be with me but he is with the boys. Its nice to have you ladies to talk to since DH doesn't like to talk about these things being a man and being a military service man he keeps things to himself. I really hope you get your BFP with a sticky bean!!! and if you don't hope that DH gives you a chance again, give him some time.

[atomic sagebrush]

I think that if DH shows up to DTD unprotected knowing that pregnancy is always a possibility - that is ok. Anything beyond that is crossing lines that I don't feel comfy encouraging people to do.