Blue- its a boy!

[atomic sagebrush]

It is really helpful, thank you so much. I will post my sway soon. Can i post it to get the suggestions even if I am not conceived.

Yes of course you can post in your coaching forum if you want my input right away and/or also out here in the free forums and I'll sound off on it either way! wherever you feel more comfortable posting.

[Chomzi]

Most of us on here have timing opposites. I have 3 boys conceived with 3 day cutoffs!!

When I looked into it I found that the whole idea has been completely debunked by science and you can read all that here https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gen...le-timing.html

We have found that one attempt, for reasons we do not know, has swayed strongly PINK. So having one attempt at ovulation is a really bad way to get a boy. I cannot recommend doing one attempt 12 hours after positive OPK for blue swayers (that's pretty much when I got my only daughter!!). What I would have you do instead, if you still want to do timing, is have an attempt the night of positive OPK (O-1) , again the next morning (O Day) and then again the following night (also O Day). This is still Shettles timing window for a boy but you'll have 2-3 attempts instead of just one.

Also be sure you are having your husband release every 2-4 days, either on his own or with you (with protection if you want to do timing, but be sure that you are not using a spermicide condom as those may sway pink)

Good day Atomic. pls shed light on husband releasing 2-4 days. Bcos i read much ejaculation sways girl,we abstain from sex/ejaculation from AF-O to ensure much of Y sperm.

Or should we have it after AF,then abstain till night of positive OPK?

[atomic sagebrush]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAA

NO PLEASE DO NOT ABSTAIN FROM AF-O FOR A BOY!

Oh gosh reading that terrifies me LOL

Abstaining for that long sways pink by killing off massive amounts of sperm and making many many more of them unhealthy. It's been a pink sway tactic for as long as I've been swaying (10 years now)

All blue swayers need to have their husbands release every 2-4 days. This is not too much ejaculation. This is called regular release and it makes the most healthy sperm (both X and Y) and whenever there are a lot of sperm in the ejaculate, this sways blue (we don't know why). Please have your husband release on his own or with you, with a non-spermicide condom, every 2-4 days starting immediately.

What you are thinking of is frequent release. But this has to be 7-10 days of release every single day in a row before it sways pink (and even then it doesn't work very well!)

Please have your husband start doing regular release every 2-4 days right away. YOu do not need to "abstain" for a boy or save up sperm for any number of days before your attempts in the fertile window. You just need to avoid long abstains OR long periods of time where he is releasing every day in a row. 2 releases in a row does not sway pink. Every 2-4 day release absolultely does not sway pink. Abstaining from AF-O DOES sway pink and so that needs to go right away.

[Chomzi]

OMG!!! Thank God I stumbled on this thread and had to ask.

We ve been doing it all wrong. Immediately I read ur reply Atomic,I had him release. He has not since my last fertile window.

So does he need to have another release maybe tomorrow,then we observe the two-two days interval? I ask bcos we ve been ignorantly saving sperm and suffering the man,so would another release this evening and tomorrow evening be OK to put off the unhealthy ones? Then we start the two-two days pattern.

Thank God for u,Atomic

[Chomzi]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAA

NO PLEASE DO NOT ABSTAIN FROM AF-O FOR A BOY!

Oh gosh reading that terrifies me LOL

Abstaining for that long sways pink by killing off massive amounts of sperm and making many many more of them unhealthy. It's been a pink sway tactic for as long as I've been swaying (10 years now)

All blue swayers need to have their husbands release every 2-4 days. This is not too much ejaculation. This is called regular release and it makes the most healthy sperm (both X and Y) and whenever there are a lot of sperm in the ejaculate, this sways blue (we don't know why). Please have your husband release on his own or with you, with a non-spermicide condom, every 2-4 days starting immediately.

What you are thinking of is frequent release. But this has to be 7-10 days of release every single day in a row before it sways pink (and even then it doesn't work very well!)

Please have your husband start doing regular release every 2-4 days right away. YOu do not need to "abstain" for a boy or save up sperm for any number of days before your attempts in the fertile window. You just need to avoid long abstains OR long periods of time where he is releasing every day in a row. 2 releases in a row does not sway pink. Every 2-4 day release absolultely does not sway pink. Abstaining from AF-O DOES sway pink and so that needs to go right away.

And ur long AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA made me laugh at ourselves.(haha)

[atomic sagebrush]

I would just go to every 2-4 days right now. Doing more releases won't get rid of the bad sperm any faster and it may even make him depleted and less able to make new healthy sperm to replace them.

I am just SO happy I caught this in time!

[atomic sagebrush]

And ur long AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA made me laugh at ourselves.(haha)

I really said 'AAA" out loud when I read that! Maybe not that long though!! Sending you tons of blue dust!

[Chomzi]

Pls help me review my sway in general to avoid had I known.


Patatoes- I fry many and snack on them daily.

Eat anything I find in morning,mostly white rice or corn pap

Eat rice,beans,meat(red meat,lean meat and goat meat),fish.

I eat banana and groundnut daily.

Sometimes I blend banana and avocado and take.

Beverage (cocoa tea and full cream milk),with white bread.

Also want to cook snail today,I ate yesterday(don't know if its a no no)

Drink coconut water daily and snack on coconut.

I ordered the women-one-a-day but hasn't arrived,but taking vit e,folic acid,zinc,50mg vit.c

I will start taking the multivitamin by tomorrow when I get them.

I add 2 lemon to a glass of water and take it with raw garlic about 2-3 cloves,daily.

I plan to use mucinex 5-O days.

Also looking for fish oil too

DH will take a cold shower b4 every attempt.

Will make first attempt night of positive opk,morning and night.

Excersices little but trying

There's no ac in my room,except my lounge,so I sleep under the fan.

Don't know where to get a pH test strip, already looked for one but couldn't find. I don't know how else to check my ph

[Chomzi]

I would just go to every 2-4 days right now. Doing more releases won't get rid of the bad sperm any faster and it may even make him depleted and less able to make new healthy sperm to replace them.

I am just SO happy I caught this in time!

Thank u again. Am a lot more happy that I sorted this.

U are of great help

[Chomzi]

I really said 'AAA" out loud when I read that! Maybe not that long though!! Sending you tons of blue dust!

Pls review my sway. Thank u