Mochagirl's Girl Sway - Result Unknown (Miscarriage)

[Mochagirl]

Thanks for the encouragement, DM. One of my biggest worries is that I conceived this baby at the exact same time of year I conceived my boys. It just all seems so familiar timing-wise that I figure there's no way it's a girl. Also, I don't think my BD pattern was all that different. I didn't do strict frequent BD this month - we BD every day from CD11 through CD16, which was O day, with only a day and a half of releasing beforehand (3 times). With ds3 we BD CD8-11, CD13, then CD 16, which was O day (although I was trying for O+12).

[DoulaMama]

Yeah I can see that. I do have a close friend that has 4 kids- all born within 6 weeks of each other and they have BGGB. You just never know! I'd say, with such a huge change in eating(the foods that you ate, the fact that you didn't snack and had no breakfast), it really boosts your chances And, like other have said on other threads...you could have the ultimate sway and still feel like you could have done more. You could have eaten only rice cakes and cucumbers on a deserted island for 6 months while DTD 5x daily and you'd most likely still worry I know I would! I'm holding out all hope that you get your girl~~~~ xoxox

[swish]

Mocha, my sister has b and g whose birthdays are only one week apart, x

[Mochagirl]

Thanks, ladies - I'm just having a down day. DM - you're right that no matter what I'd probably be questioning my sway.

[lobella2]

I have a boy and a girl who I had the same due date with and their birthdays are four days apart.

[Mochagirl]

You ladies are awesome at making me feel better - thanks

[Alexis2007]

Awww Mocha!!! CONGRATS!!!! I've been gone for a bit and just now seeing this!! I'm so happy for you!! Yay!!

[Alexis2007]

Oh and my DH and his sister's were all born in March. He and his oldest sister have the same exact bday, March 19!!! His youngest sister's bday is March 12th!! lol His mom got pregnant each time while they were on vacation!

[Mochagirl]

Thanks, Alexis!

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm A-OK...no issues what so ever. Just had a "vanishing twin" and no subchronic hematoma but I was a complete nut job for a few wks. Now just trying to keep GD at bay incase I don't get the results we're hoping for. YAY...so exited for you and can't wait to "nubsess" w/you!

I'm so sorry I didn't hear about that OotB...PM me if you want to talk because I went thru the same thing. Huge (((hugs))) and best wishes for the rest of your pg.