No sign of AF

[LMSM]

Yay for AF meoab! FX big time darl!

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you ladies! I hope I get pregnant this month as we are trying actively. Atomic, should I take the guanefesin till I get my af or just leave it and BD every other day? I have started the kettle bell strength training again after a week of holiday.

No, you only need to take the guanefesin up to O. Some people take it till 3 days after O.

[TtcBlue18]

I just read through your post out of curiosity and just wanted to say awesome news! Praying you get your baby boy this cycle!

[meoab]

My AF has not arrived yet and I am on day 28 now. It kind of scares that it wont arrive again for the next 3 months. I do feel cramp and a lot of pain around my cervix. Especially when I move.

[atomic sagebrush]

Well, here's the thing. Worrying about it is not going to make it come sooner and in fact may delay it.

We are not "meant" to know we are ovulating. It's like a watched pot. Your body notices things like anxiety and may delay O accordingly (which in turn delays AF) So while I know it's hard, stressing about Oing and AF arriving on time only makes things worse!

[meoab]

I would like to update on this one since I got pregnant after my AF came back in May (took three months).

AF came back the 13th of May and everything was normal (bleeding part and duration). My husband and I bd'ed on cd12 and cd14 as far as I know. It makes me so sad that I did not note it down but hey I had all negative opk's. We also
bd'ed on cd 30, 31, 33 and 36 with 5 attempts in total. I had all very dark positive opk's during that week, assuming I was about to ovulate rather than being pregnant. This was the first time we ttc after my AF came back and bam got pregnant without knowing. No idea how blue friendly I am and how many attempts I really got..just praying for a healthy baby boy. I am obsessed with all this blue sways. Have anxiety as the succesful blue sways have all many attempts...and there I am. Have been working so hard on my diet and working out. All the aupps...the yogas, the accupuncture (lol). I feel like a joke...

Although I have these anxiety moments I want to thank you Atomic <3. Learned a lot from you and the other ladies. Learned about my body and how to control it, be aware of my internal surrounding and how it actually works.

[kittendreams]

I would like to update on this one since I got pregnant after my AF came back in May (took three months).

AF came back the 13th of May and everything was normal (bleeding part and duration). My husband and I bd'ed on cd12 and cd14 as far as I know. It makes me so sad that I did not note it down but hey I had all negative opk's. We also
bd'ed on cd 30, 31, 33 and 36 with 5 attempts in total. I had all very dark positive opk's during that week, assuming I was about to ovulate rather than being pregnant. This was the first time we ttc after my AF came back and bam got pregnant without knowing. No idea how blue friendly I am and how many attempts I really got..just praying for a healthy baby boy. I am obsessed with all this blue sways. Have anxiety as the succesful blue sways have all many attempts...and there I am. Have been working so hard on my diet and working out. All the aupps...the yogas, the accupuncture (lol). I feel like a joke...

Although I have these anxiety moments I want to thank you Atomic <3. Learned a lot from you and the other ladies. Learned about my body and how to control it, be aware of my internal surrounding and how it actually works.

Congratulations on your pregnancy Meoab! Sending lots of blue dust your way and don't worry you can still conceive a boy with those attempts especially if you were eating boy friendly- that is very similar to how my ds1 was conceived- 2 attempts a few days before o.
Fx this is your sweet boy xx

[Babybeaublue]

Congratulations!

[atomic sagebrush]

Good luck and blue dust! IF stress was delaying O anyway (or playing some part in that) for all we know that was the exact right thing to have happened for your sway and also for conceiving.

[sofiawest]

Some expert suggests that it can be infertility issue even when the test result shows it's normal. I hope it helps