Is there really a 50/50 chance of a girl if I am not swaying?

[DoulaMama]

Blue!! xoxo

[Indira]

Happyheart I´m on CD 9, I think I will O in about a week. So maybe we´ll be in 2 WW together for a couple of days.
Very good idea the acupuncture! That may really help you. I´m going to look into that for me too.
And good you´ve relaxed, not tempting and such, I really need to start relaxing too I always plan for my sway to take 4-5 relaxation/breathing breaks during the day, but then when O approaches I get so excited and just hang out here instead when I have a free moment.
Thanks for the dust Doulamama!
OOTB Yes I´m looking forward to my break, hope I will be able to take a real break and enjoy it.

[happyheart]

HappyHeart!!! Hi!!! I agree w/Doula...although I've never tried it, acupuncture is supposed to really help and TONS of women swear by it. Maybe it's b/c it just helps you relax if anything. I feel the same way about possibly never conceiving again. It's the most dreadful thought but I know it's irrational. I know you'll get your LO soon! I'm thinking good thoughts for you and hope you get a BFP this next round!!!

Hi !!! Thank you so much!!!! I really appreciate your understanding and encouraging words!! I hope you are doing well!!!

[happyheart]

Happyheart I´m on CD 9, I think I will O in about a week. So maybe we´ll be in 2 WW together for a couple of days.
Very good idea the acupuncture! That may really help you. I´m going to look into that for me too.
And good you´ve relaxed, not tempting and such, I really need to start relaxing too I always plan for my sway to take 4-5 relaxation/breathing breaks during the day, but then when O approaches I get so excited and just hang out here instead when I have a free moment.

That would be wonderful if we where there together! FX for both of us!!!
I love the relaxation/breathing breaks!!! Even though I am doing some things to relax... I am going to start doing this too!!

Thank you again!!

[carmella_marie]

your husband does make 50% x sperm and 50% y sperm because basically sperm is made by dividing one of DH's cells in half, so there is half in each sperm and therfore an equal number of X and Y, but there are so many other factors--maybe DH diet favors one sperm to live longer than the other, or the timing and frequncy of BDing favors one over the other, or your diet or supplements, or intercourse position, or douches etc. So the answer is yes, 50/50 X and Y but i would not say 50/50 of having your desired gender.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hello ~

First, I want to say the I MISS all my swaying friends here!!

I was wondering if there is a 50/50 chance for a girl after you stop swaying?

I chose to stop swaying since I am on clomid and really need to conceive as soon as possible. I am on round 3 and my OB told me on Friday that he will only do 4 rounds of clomid.

Right now we are planning our attempt and we are doing everything that we can to conceive, which all feels "boy" to me and I am little sad about it. ugh!

Thank you!

I do not think it is 50-50 odds for most people walking around out there, but I DO think that if you were swaying and stopped, that sway is still working for you. Plus I think Clomid will be doing some swaying too and you need to get pg ASAP.

A gal I know from IG conceived GG twins the month after taking Clomid and I know at least one other who started Clomid, stopped it, and conceived a girl the next month without swaying.

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh! Who is Michaela?

HI DM! Thank you so much!! I sooooooo hope your little one is a girl too!!! I do not think your sway sucked!!

I can't even say that I am swaying any longer. After I ovulated I went back to my normal eating habits because I really wanted to gain some weight back and honestly I was just stressed about it and not conceiving. I dropped the diet pop (I never drank pop normally). I am eating pretty healthy right now with proteins and veggies trying to make my body as healthy as possible. And we will be using lots of preseed.
I have this deep fear that I will not conceive again ever! It probably seems weird... I know. As much as I REALLY want a girl, I would be completely over the moon just having another little love in my arms again. I sometimes wonder if I needed to go through all of this just to realize that my gender dream can change.

THANK YOU again! I am thinking about you!!

Michaela is a very knowledgeable gal who is expert in all matters infertility.

Again, just to reiterate, I think even with stopping the diet, if you WERE dieting and then started eating even a bit more normally again, that message is still being sent to your body that something is up with the food supply.

It is interesting waht you say about realizing how dreams can change because so many of us have had that experience after struggling with BFNs. We think we have to have our DG come hell or high water but then realize we would be happy just to have another baby. Sometimes things do happen for a reason I guess!!