My official blue sway plan!- started August 1st

[Tali.kah]

Remember though, most people get a girl and a boy or a boy and a girl without doing ANY of this stuff! 50% of everyone just has 2 babies and gets the pigeon pair without even trying! So you CAN absolutely still get a boy no matter what!!

Good luck with HR!!!

Atomic I keep thinking about it over and over, what's done is really done - the genders already decided but I keep playing the whole thing over again!!! I hope your right about the ovulation not being right and the OPK catching the end.

So I started the diet and sups aug 1st, did this every perfectly!!!!, I didn't pick up on the black tray till end of august (around the conception) and I didn't go really hard core into the fairy until end of august- I was having some just could have had more.

We bd/release every few days (average 3-4 days all of august) but since we weren't ttc this month we slowed down around my fertile window.

We went 8 days with no BD/release (tmi- maybe hubby released I'm not sure)
Cd 14- bd
Cd 16- bd
Cd 18- was going to bd BUT felt right side pain, egg white fluid so I did a OPK and it was a blazing definite peak- no BD!!!! But already freaked out
Cd 24- bd
Cd 28- bd

I honestly thought I wouldn't get preg!!! From those attempts!!

Around when we were trying for our first I always peaked cd 11,12
The exact cycle conceived my DD
Went a stretch with no BD again
Cd 11- peak OPK
Cd 12- bd
Cd 13- bd (OPK low)
Cd 14- bd


Ugh!!!!! I'm booking my dating ultrasound soon- nothing I can look out for this early is there? It's just going to be a little blob of a baby lol.

I just did sooooo well with the diet and supps- if I hadn't gotten preg off this I had the best end of September sway planned! The BD was going to be perfect and frequent. Feeling so bummed!!!!

At this point it isn't even bummed about a possible other DD it's bummed I worked so hard to prep for the sway and djdntgey to finish excecufingit!

[atomic sagebrush]

No I don't think there are any reliable gender clues this soon!

I completely get it - with my 4th son I was "taking the month off" to gain weight to relose (pink swayers, never gain weight to relose LOL) and then all of a sudden I ovulated and got pregnant without even having AF that month!! I was so peeved I could have chewed iron and spit nails! FXFXFX for blue for you!!

[3littleladies01]

Atomic I keep thinking about it over and over, what's done is really done - the genders already decided but I keep playing the whole thing over again!!! I hope your right about the ovulation not being right and the OPK catching the end.

So I started the diet and sups aug 1st, did this every perfectly!!!!, I didn't pick up on the black tray till end of august (around the conception) and I didn't go really hard core into the fairy until end of august- I was having some just could have had more.

We bd/release every few days (average 3-4 days all of august) but since we weren't ttc this month we slowed down around my fertile window.

We went 8 days with no BD/release (tmi- maybe hubby released I'm not sure)
Cd 14- bd
Cd 16- bd
Cd 18- was going to bd BUT felt right side pain, egg white fluid so I did a OPK and it was a blazing definite peak- no BD!!!! But already freaked out
Cd 24- bd
Cd 28- bd

I honestly thought I wouldn't get preg!!! From those attempts!!

Around when we were trying for our first I always peaked cd 11,12
The exact cycle conceived my DD
Went a stretch with no BD again
Cd 11- peak OPK
Cd 12- bd
Cd 13- bd (OPK low)
Cd 14- bd


Ugh!!!!! I'm booking my dating ultrasound soon- nothing I can look out for this early is there? It's just going to be a little blob of a baby lol.

I just did sooooo well with the diet and supps- if I hadn't gotten preg off this I had the best end of September sway planned! The BD was going to be perfect and frequent. Feeling so bummed!!!!

At this point it isn't even bummed about a possible other DD it's bummed I worked so hard to prep for the sway and djdntgey to finish excecufingit!

Sorry to chime in on your thread talk.kah....I’m also a blue swayer . I have 3 girls (2nd was a failed shettles and 3rd a failed blue sway) I’m having one last attempt to get a blue from this month.

I just wanted to say I TOTALLY 100% understand how bummed you must feel right now that your sway didn’t go to plan. If it makes u feel any better my last sway was fab - I BD to the letter for a blue sway and was really on top of diet etc and I happened to be in that 25% that still got an opposite. I wanted to highlight it as you never know, you may well get your little boy even tho things didn’t go to plan - don’t give up hope just yet.

Also, if it is another DD...I know gender disappointment may be hard, but I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE watching my 2 older DD’s play together - their bond is incredible and makes me melt (& I know my third will well and truly be in the mix and when she is older too) - just take heart that whatever happens, your DD will be so happy to have a sibling of either gender and if it is another girl the bond between them will be incredible and amazing for u to see.

Keeping everything crossed for you and sending blue dust. Big hugs xx

As I say, sorry to chime in - my heart just goes out to you that’s all xxx



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[Tali.kah]

Sorry to chime in on your thread talk.kah....I’m also a blue swayer . I have 3 girls (2nd was a failed shettles and 3rd a failed blue sway) I’m having one last attempt to get a blue from this month.

I just wanted to say I TOTALLY 100% understand how bummed you must feel right now that your sway didn’t go to plan. If it makes u feel any better my last sway was fab - I BD to the letter for a blue sway and was really on top of diet etc and I happened to be in that 25% that still got an opposite. I wanted to highlight it as you never know, you may well get your little boy even tho things didn’t go to plan - don’t give up hope just yet.

Also, if it is another DD...I know gender disappointment may be hard, but I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE watching my 2 older DD’s play together - their bond is incredible and makes me melt (& I know my third will well and truly be in the mix and when she is older too) - just take heart that whatever happens, your DD will be so happy to have a sibling of either gender and if it is another girl the bond between them will be incredible and amazing for u to see.

Keeping everything crossed for you and sending blue dust. Big hugs xx

As I say, sorry to chime in - my heart just goes out to you that’s all xxx



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Don't be sorry for chiming in at all!!!! I love all and any advice/stories !!
Thank you for your words it means a lot!

Yes right now I'm just so bummed the BD didn't get to be how I wanted- just wasn't expecting this to be the month! Off by 1 cycle!

I agree- I think I will have gender disappointment BUT knowing my DD will have a sister makes it easier to take. We also always wanted 3 kids so maybe #3 will be the blue if this fails- one last chance left!

The anticipation is killing me !!! Wish I could know what this baby is already!

[Tali.kah]

No I don't think there are any reliable gender clues this soon!

I completely get it - with my 4th son I was "taking the month off" to gain weight to relose (pink swayers, never gain weight to relose LOL) and then all of a sudden I ovulated and got pregnant without even having AF that month!! I was so peeved I could have chewed iron and spit nails! FXFXFX for blue for you!!

Thank you again for your words Atomic!! I wish I could know what this baby is already!!!! The anticipation is going to kill me ! I feel like it's a 90% chance of it being a girl (even though everyone's odds are 50/50 lol)

So my dating scan will be at 8 weeks and some days - any good chance of getting nubs shots you think?
Ramsy theory isn't reliable right?

[atomic sagebrush]

8 weeks is way too soon for a nub shot!

After having seen people send Dr. Ramzi $10 to guess their ultrasounds, and he guessed WRONG, I no longer believe in Ramzi any more. Recently I found out that his "study" was never even published for review by other scientists and so that is a sign that it probably doesn't realy work. If he had a method that could be so accurate for gender and had published it for other scientists, I guarantee you it would have been proven true or false by now and every doctor in the world would be using it if it had been proven true. But they don't, because it doesn't work and the fact that he didn't bother to publish it (even though he'd be a millionaire if it was true) pretty much proves that.