Only as it relates to gender, at one point I had wondered if I was affecting my own destiny by being jealous when people got my DG, and happy/relieved when they didn't. Plus, it felt totally lousy to be 'relieved' when I thought (but didn't know) that someone didn't get what they wanted. I vowed to figure out how to be genuinely happy for my friends no matter what gender they got - and amazingly, over time, it worked. I felt real happiness for them. It didn't come back as karma in the end for me gender-wise, but I sure felt more at peace.