I almost feel embarassed...is that weird??

[Tooblue]

I feel as though I could have written your post! I am also pg with #3 right now after 2 boys. I am still feeling pretty confident that this COULD be a girl, but if it's not then yes, embarrassed is one of the emotions I will feel. I understand feeling "defective", and feeling no desire to take care of another boy. I understand everything, absolutely everything you said here because I am going through these very same emotions, myself. ((HUGS))

[HopeNfaith]

I hated to tell people I was pregnant with my third son. Strangers were the worst...feel like everyone had a comment. But it's not so bad now that he's here....I dont get as many comments now. I had the same feeling, what did I need another boy for? He is perfect and so happy he came to me! But now the only way I'm having another is if definitely a girl...

[InLove]

Wow, I actaully really relate with what your saying. I only have one little boy who's 13 months and I don't find out the gender of this one for another two weeks, but EVERYONE in my family is saying it's a girl. This is our last baby so everyone is very invested. They refer to it as 'her', say 'little sister' to my son and my MIL says she will be dissapointed if I have another boy. I already feel embarrased, as I feel like I'll be letting everyone down if it is in fact another boy. Don't be too hard on yourself and although it might not be the little girl you want, it will be a beautiful little person all the same

[annabel♥lee]

People are just such assholes...the things they say. My boss made a sad face when I told her I &thought* it was a boy after my NT scan. She didn't even ask if it was healthy. They are chomping at the bit waiting for my 20 week scan (not sure why they care so much), but I think I'm going to tell them I'm not finding out. That way I don't have to talk about it at all. Baby won't be born until July and I'm done with work in late May/early June so I'll never even have to deal with the comments about it.

I really think that's my plan now. I will tell family and I told my BFF, but besides them everyone is just going to think I don't know.